{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Saint Dymphna’s Playbook","home_page_url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm","feed_url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/json","description":"A podcast about finding mental well-being as a Catholic with the help of community and the saints. Hosted by Tommy Tighe, a marriage and family therapist, husband, and father. In each episode Tommy addresses different mental health issues, introduces listeners to a saint who is relevant to mental health and wellness, and responds to questions from Twitter followers.\r\n","_fireside":{"subtitle":"Here to fill the void in Catholic conversations about mental health.","pubdate":"2022-06-18T09:00:00.000-04:00","explicit":false,"copyright":"2024 by Grexly","owner":"Grexly","image":"https://assets.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images/podcasts/images/3/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/cover.jpg?v=3"},"items":[{"id":"41582086-dc70-46cd-95cf-37927fbae927","title":"130: Coping with Anticipatory Grief","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/130","content_text":"Tommy talks about processing childhood trauma as an adult, introduces listeners to Saint Joachina Vedruna de Mas, and answers listener questions about how to avoid seeking reassurance from family and friends, how to cope with anticipatory grief, and how to cope with all the emotions in the days following a traumatic event.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about processing childhood trauma as an adult, introduces listeners to Saint Joachina Vedruna de Mas, and answers listener questions about how to avoid seeking reassurance from family and friends, how to cope with anticipatory grief, and how to cope with all the emotions in the days following a traumatic event.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about processing childhood trauma as an adult, introduces listeners to Saint Joachina Vedruna de Mas, and answers listener questions about how to avoid seeking reassurance from family and friends, how to cope with anticipatory grief, and how to cope with all the emotions in the days following a traumatic event.","date_published":"2022-06-18T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/41582086-dc70-46cd-95cf-37927fbae927.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":38113341,"duration_in_seconds":1190}]},{"id":"86973acf-bdcf-4193-bca3-4657b796322a","title":"129: Vicarious Trauma After Uvalde ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/129","content_text":"Tommy talks about the increase in children seeking mental health services in schools, introduces listeners to Blessed Angelina of Marsciano, and answers listener questions about how to set boundaries with a manipulative family member who lives close by, if OCD is a spiritual attack that needs to be renounced, and what teachers can do to regain a sense of safety in the wake of another tragic school shooting.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the increase in children seeking mental health services in schools, introduces listeners to Blessed Angelina of Marsciano, and answers listener questions about how to set boundaries with a manipulative family member who lives close by, if OCD is a spiritual attack that needs to be renounced, and what teachers can do to regain a sense of safety in the wake of another tragic school shooting.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the increase in children seeking mental health services in schools, introduces listeners to Blessed Angelina of Marsciano, and answers listener questions about how to set boundaries with a manipulative family member who lives close by, if OCD is a spiritual attack that needs to be renounced, and what teachers can do to regain a sense of safety in the wake of another tragic school shooting.","date_published":"2022-06-11T09:45:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/86973acf-bdcf-4193-bca3-4657b796322a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13848245,"duration_in_seconds":1153}]},{"id":"09718017-9efe-44aa-95f6-85128f9a5637","title":"128: Hit & Run OCD","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/128","content_text":"Tommy talks about the impact of sleep deprivation on the mental health of teens, introduces listeners to Saint Ignatius of Laconi, and answers listener questions about how to address caregiver burnout, how to help a friend with religious OCD, and how to address symptoms of hit and run OCD. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the impact of sleep deprivation on the mental health of teens, introduces listeners to Saint Ignatius of Laconi, and answers listener questions about how to address caregiver burnout, how to help a friend with religious OCD, and how to address symptoms of hit and run OCD.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the impact of sleep deprivation on the mental health of teens, introduces listeners to Saint Ignatius of Laconi, and answers listener questions about how to address caregiver burnout, how to help a friend with religious OCD, and how to address symptoms of hit and run OCD. ","date_published":"2022-06-04T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/09718017-9efe-44aa-95f6-85128f9a5637.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":15967568,"duration_in_seconds":1330}]},{"id":"4e69c047-fab6-4137-a076-8b092f48dcd6","title":"127: When You're in Love with a Friend","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/127","content_text":"Tommy talks about Metallica starting a mental health conversation, introduces listeners to Venerable Pierre Toussaint, and answers listener questions about how to maintain a friendship with someone we love, if mental illness can be a reason to receive communion at home, and how to help a teen who has experienced trauma.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Metallica starting a mental health conversation, introduces listeners to Venerable Pierre Toussaint, and answers listener questions about how to maintain a friendship with someone we love, if mental illness can be a reason to receive communion at home, and how to help a teen who has experienced trauma.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Metallica starting a mental health conversation, introduces listeners to Venerable Pierre Toussaint, and answers listener questions about how to maintain a friendship with someone we love, if mental illness can be a reason to receive communion at home, and how to help a teen who has experienced trauma.","date_published":"2022-05-28T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/4e69c047-fab6-4137-a076-8b092f48dcd6.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":11289157,"duration_in_seconds":940}]},{"id":"9ad59465-e9f7-4e79-b9fe-2364ea3ab930","title":"126: Is Missing Mass Because of Depression a Sin? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/126","content_text":"Tommy talks about bias in mental health research, introduces listeners to Saint Leopold Mandic, and answers listener questions about accepting limitations related to our mental health, if missing Mass because of depression is a sin, and how to understand body positivity and increase awareness of eating disorders within the Catholic context. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about bias in mental health research, introduces listeners to Saint Leopold Mandic, and answers listener questions about accepting limitations related to our mental health, if missing Mass because of depression is a sin, and how to understand body positivity and increase awareness of eating disorders within the Catholic context.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about bias in mental health research, introduces listeners to Saint Leopold Mandic, and answers listener questions about accepting limitations related to our mental health, if missing Mass because of depression is a sin, and how to understand body positivity and increase awareness of eating disorders within the Catholic context. ","date_published":"2022-05-21T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/9ad59465-e9f7-4e79-b9fe-2364ea3ab930.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12446631,"duration_in_seconds":1036}]},{"id":"3c335551-0ea1-4754-8a55-70d1bd2e41ef","title":"125: Did I Cause My Child's Mental Illness?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/125","content_text":"Tommy talks about the the practical limits of mental health apps, introduces listeners to Blessed Michael Giedroyc, and answers listener questions about how to reconcile our spirituality and mental health, how to sort out which spiritual practices will be right for us in light of our mental health, and how to understand a parent's role in the mental health of their children. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the the practical limits of mental health apps, introduces listeners to Blessed Michael Giedroyc, and answers listener questions about how to reconcile our spirituality and mental health, how to sort out which spiritual practices will be right for us in light of our mental health, and how to understand a parent's role in the mental health of their children.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the the practical limits of mental health apps, introduces listeners to Blessed Michael Giedroyc, and answers listener questions about how to reconcile our spirituality and mental health, how to sort out which spiritual practices will be right for us in light of our mental health, and how to understand a parent's role in the mental health of their children. ","date_published":"2022-05-14T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/3c335551-0ea1-4754-8a55-70d1bd2e41ef.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12673869,"duration_in_seconds":1055}]},{"id":"eb8d4317-3326-429c-bd19-920708341120","title":"124: Forgiving God After a Miscarriage ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/124","content_text":"Tommy talks about the growing recovery community on TikTok, introduces listeners to Saint Pedro de San José Betancur, and answers listener questions about being angry at God after a miscarriage, how to cope with Hyperemesis gravidarum, and how to work through workplace trauma. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the growing recovery community on TikTok, introduces listeners to Saint Pedro de San José Betancur, and answers listener questions about being angry at God after a miscarriage, how to cope with Hyperemesis gravidarum, and how to work through workplace trauma.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the growing recovery community on TikTok, introduces listeners to Saint Pedro de San José Betancur, and answers listener questions about being angry at God after a miscarriage, how to cope with Hyperemesis gravidarum, and how to work through workplace trauma. ","date_published":"2022-05-07T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/eb8d4317-3326-429c-bd19-920708341120.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":35873871,"duration_in_seconds":1120}]},{"id":"329797c3-5a68-4c8b-8d47-270a15a25772","title":"123: I Can't Stop Procrastinating!","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/123","content_text":"Tommy talks about a task force recommended screening for anxiety starting at age 8, introduces listeners to Saint Conrad of Parzham, and answers listener questions about how to help a child diagnosed with alopecia, how a person with strong religious convictions can navigate being a therapist, and how to tackle procrastination. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a task force recommended screening for anxiety starting at age 8, introduces listeners to Saint Conrad of Parzham, and answers listener questions about how to help a child diagnosed with alopecia, how a person with strong religious convictions can navigate being a therapist, and how to tackle procrastination.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a task force recommended screening for anxiety starting at age 8, introduces listeners to Saint Conrad of Parzham, and answers listener questions about how to help a child diagnosed with alopecia, how a person with strong religious convictions can navigate being a therapist, and how to tackle procrastination. ","date_published":"2022-04-30T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/329797c3-5a68-4c8b-8d47-270a15a25772.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":11647229,"duration_in_seconds":970}]},{"id":"1fffe3ec-1a9b-4e98-aa60-e632c5f5c3c0","title":"122: When Stigma Pushes Us Away","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/122","content_text":"Tommy talks about a recent Facebook ad from the US Bureau of Prisons, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Gonzalez, and answers listener questions about how to grieve in the midst of a grieving family, how to respond to priests who stigmatize those of us with mental illness, and how to approach talking about our mental health in confession.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a recent Facebook ad from the US Bureau of Prisons, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Gonzalez, and answers listener questions about how to grieve in the midst of a grieving family, how to respond to priests who stigmatize those of us with mental illness, and how to approach talking about our mental health in confession.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a recent Facebook ad from the US Bureau of Prisons, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Gonzalez, and answers listener questions about how to grieve in the midst of a grieving family, how to respond to priests who stigmatize those of us with mental illness, and how to approach talking about our mental health in confession.","date_published":"2022-04-23T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/1fffe3ec-1a9b-4e98-aa60-e632c5f5c3c0.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12690771,"duration_in_seconds":1057}]},{"id":"9b663594-7f34-4682-a80e-70581001d3bd","title":"121: Mental Health & Theology of the Body","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/121","content_text":"Tommy talks about Selena Gomez ditching social media for her mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Crescentia Hoss, and answers listener questions about the connections between mental health and Theology of the Body, how to help a family member with Alcohol Use Disorder, and how to approach a situation with someone suffering from delusional thoughts at Mass.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Selena Gomez ditching social media for her mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Crescentia Hoss, and answers listener questions about the connections between mental health and Theology of the Body, how to help a family member with Alcohol Use Disorder, and how to approach a situation with someone suffering from delusional thoughts at Mass.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Selena Gomez ditching social media for her mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Crescentia Hoss, and answers listener questions about the connections between mental health and Theology of the Body, how to help a family member with Alcohol Use Disorder, and how to approach a situation with someone suffering from delusional thoughts at Mass.","date_published":"2022-04-16T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/9b663594-7f34-4682-a80e-70581001d3bd.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":14513370,"duration_in_seconds":1208}]},{"id":"fa42aa01-48b1-4c78-96a9-eee930d07126","title":"120: Mental Health and Infertility","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/120","content_text":"Tommy talks about the positive power of music, introduces listeners to Saint Stephen of Mar Saba, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety over the war in Ukraine, how to manage mental wellbeing while living through infertility, and how to find good mental health after leaving an abusive relationship. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the positive power of music, introduces listeners to Saint Stephen of Mar Saba, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety over the war in Ukraine, how to manage mental wellbeing while living through infertility, and how to find good mental health after leaving an abusive relationship.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the positive power of music, introduces listeners to Saint Stephen of Mar Saba, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety over the war in Ukraine, how to manage mental wellbeing while living through infertility, and how to find good mental health after leaving an abusive relationship. ","date_published":"2022-04-09T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/fa42aa01-48b1-4c78-96a9-eee930d07126.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12083238,"duration_in_seconds":1006}]},{"id":"f4425638-ac17-4ae9-b15e-f9285e449fbf","title":"119: Navigating Toxic Family Relationships","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/119","content_text":"Tommy talks about the importance of supporting our teenage daughters in their mental and emotional wellbeing, introduces listeners to Saint Nicholas Owen, and answers listener questions about Tourette's Syndrome, the practice of memento mori if we also experience suicidal ideation, and how to navigate boundaries with toxic family members. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the importance of supporting our teenage daughters in their mental and emotional wellbeing, introduces listeners to Saint Nicholas Owen, and answers listener questions about Tourette's Syndrome, the practice of memento mori if we also experience suicidal ideation, and how to navigate boundaries with toxic family members.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the importance of supporting our teenage daughters in their mental and emotional wellbeing, introduces listeners to Saint Nicholas Owen, and answers listener questions about Tourette's Syndrome, the practice of memento mori if we also experience suicidal ideation, and how to navigate boundaries with toxic family members. ","date_published":"2022-04-02T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f4425638-ac17-4ae9-b15e-f9285e449fbf.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12114538,"duration_in_seconds":1009}]},{"id":"225e956f-c91e-4859-a59e-36e816bfab4e","title":"118: Intrusive Thoughts of Suicide","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/118","content_text":"Tommy talks about and prays for a college athlete who recently died by suicide, introduces listeners to Saint Clement Mary Hofbauer, and answers listener questions about the experience of long-term grief, how to help a child with intrusive suicidal thoughts, and how we should understand diminished responsibility when it comes to those who have died by suicide. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about and prays for a college athlete who recently died by suicide, introduces listeners to Saint Clement Mary Hofbauer, and answers listener questions about the experience of long-term grief, how to help a child with intrusive suicidal thoughts, and how we should understand diminished responsibility when it comes to those who have died by suicide.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about and prays for a college athlete who recently died by suicide, introduces listeners to Saint Clement Mary Hofbauer, and answers listener questions about the experience of long-term grief, how to help a child with intrusive suicidal thoughts, and how we should understand diminished responsibility when it comes to those who have died by suicide. ","date_published":"2022-03-26T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/225e956f-c91e-4859-a59e-36e816bfab4e.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13603792,"duration_in_seconds":1133}]},{"id":"7ca17e40-8ca6-409a-b973-c0157b76457f","title":"117: How Should We Talk About Kanye? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/117","content_text":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to get connected to mental health care, introduces listeners to Saint John Ogilvie, and answers listener questions about how we should react to Kanye West's very public walk with mental health symptoms, how to handle the reality of religious life not always seeming open to those with mental illness, and if it's okay to miss Mass because of our mental health. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about why it's so hard to get connected to mental health care, introduces listeners to Saint John Ogilvie, and answers listener questions about how we should react to Kanye West's very public walk with mental health symptoms, how to handle the reality of religious life not always seeming open to those with mental illness, and if it's okay to miss Mass because of our mental health.

","summary":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to get connected to mental health care, introduces listeners to Saint John Ogilvie, and answers listener questions about how we should react to Kanye West's very public walk with mental health symptoms, how to handle the reality of religious life not always seeming open to those with mental illness, and if it's okay to miss Mass because of our mental health. ","date_published":"2022-03-19T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/7ca17e40-8ca6-409a-b973-c0157b76457f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13673278,"duration_in_seconds":1138}]},{"id":"ddec2223-05c8-497f-8421-e7c333949391","title":"116: How To Help Someone Being Abused","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/116","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to take care of our mental health during the war in Ukraine, introduces listeners to Blessed Daniel Brottier, and answers listener questions about how to talk to someone who has experienced trauma, how to help someone living in an abusive relationship, and whether there are any saints who grew up in abusive childhood homes. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to take care of our mental health during the war in Ukraine, introduces listeners to Blessed Daniel Brottier, and answers listener questions about how to talk to someone who has experienced trauma, how to help someone living in an abusive relationship, and whether there are any saints who grew up in abusive childhood homes.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to take care of our mental health during the war in Ukraine, introduces listeners to Blessed Daniel Brottier, and answers listener questions about how to talk to someone who has experienced trauma, how to help someone living in an abusive relationship, and whether there are any saints who grew up in abusive childhood homes. ","date_published":"2022-03-12T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ddec2223-05c8-497f-8421-e7c333949391.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":14535906,"duration_in_seconds":1210}]},{"id":"1b99dc81-2d31-496d-a9e1-b8ee9f500c6e","title":"115: Healing Intergenerational Trauma ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/115","content_text":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to have quality mental health care for our incarcerated sisters and brothers, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph of Leonissa, and answers listener questions about intergenerational trauma, how to start a conversation on mental health within a religious community, and the practical steps we can take to help ourselves and others walk through emotional distress.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about why it's so hard to have quality mental health care for our incarcerated sisters and brothers, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph of Leonissa, and answers listener questions about intergenerational trauma, how to start a conversation on mental health within a religious community, and the practical steps we can take to help ourselves and others walk through emotional distress.

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","summary":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to have quality mental health care for our incarcerated sisters and brothers, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph of Leonissa, and answers listener questions about intergenerational trauma, how to start a conversation on mental health within a religious community, and the practical steps we can take to help ourselves and others walk through emotional distress.\r\n","date_published":"2022-03-05T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/1b99dc81-2d31-496d-a9e1-b8ee9f500c6e.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":34046873,"duration_in_seconds":1063}]},{"id":"e00def06-5970-4a1e-923c-b2e76a93e651","title":"114: Can Anxious Kids Find Hope in the Saints? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/114","content_text":"Tommy talks about the problem of misdiagnosis in children of color, introduces listeners to Blessed William Carter, and answers listener questions about the role of exorcism in a Catholic understanding of mental illness, how kids with mental health symptoms can find hope and support in the saints, and how to help a loved one in the midst of a panic attack. \n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the problem of misdiagnosis in children of color, introduces listeners to Blessed William Carter, and answers listener questions about the role of exorcism in a Catholic understanding of mental illness, how kids with mental health symptoms can find hope and support in the saints, and how to help a loved one in the midst of a panic attack.

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","summary":"Tommy talks about the problem of misdiagnosis in children of color, introduces listeners to Blessed William Carter, and answers listener questions about the role of exorcism in a Catholic understanding of mental illness, how kids with mental health symptoms can find hope and support in the saints, and how to help a loved one in the midst of a panic attack. ","date_published":"2022-02-26T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/e00def06-5970-4a1e-923c-b2e76a93e651.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":11334229,"duration_in_seconds":943}]},{"id":"24ee7430-fbec-4a07-a4f0-e46eb03da69d","title":"113: Compulsive Behaviors and Sin","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/113","content_text":"Tommy talks about the continued impact of Simone Biles on the mental health of athletes, introduces listeners to Saint Charles of Sezze, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anticipatory grief, how to understand sin and culpability in relation to compulsive behaviors, and how to help a spouse seek help when they aren't motivated. \n\nSaint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the continued impact of Simone Biles on the mental health of athletes, introduces listeners to Saint Charles of Sezze, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anticipatory grief, how to understand sin and culpability in relation to compulsive behaviors, and how to help a spouse seek help when they aren't motivated.

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Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the continued impact of Simone Biles on the mental health of athletes, introduces listeners to Saint Charles of Sezze, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anticipatory grief, how to understand sin and culpability in relation to compulsive behaviors, and how to help a spouse seek help when they aren't motivated. ","date_published":"2022-02-19T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/24ee7430-fbec-4a07-a4f0-e46eb03da69d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":14446701,"duration_in_seconds":1203}]},{"id":"bdedd472-f91a-4d45-8a79-e0cd907da8d1","title":"112: Mental Health and Social Media","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/112","content_text":"Tommy talks about the psychological reasons for the popularity of Wordle, introduces listeners to Saint Mary Angela Truszkowska, and answers listener questions about if we should share about our mental health on social media, the pain caused by gender dysphoria not being taken seriously in our church, how early childhood abuse can impact the emotional health of men in adulthood.\n\nSaint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook\nGet 25% off when you use the code BEWELL to purchase the book through Ave Maria Press!","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the psychological reasons for the popularity of Wordle, introduces listeners to Saint Mary Angela Truszkowska, and answers listener questions about if we should share about our mental health on social media, the pain caused by gender dysphoria not being taken seriously in our church, how early childhood abuse can impact the emotional health of men in adulthood.

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\nGet 25% off when you use the code BEWELL to purchase the book through Ave Maria Press!

","summary":"Tommy talks about the psychological reasons for the popularity of Wordle, introduces listeners to Saint Mary Angela Truszkowska, and answers listener questions about if we should share about our mental health on social media, the pain caused by gender dysphoria not being taken seriously in our church, how early childhood abuse can impact the emotional health of men in adulthood.","date_published":"2022-02-12T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/bdedd472-f91a-4d45-8a79-e0cd907da8d1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13272012,"duration_in_seconds":1105}]},{"id":"56176979-5d70-4d40-871e-7764e21e9473","title":"111: Am I Truly Sorry For My Sins? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/111","content_text":"Tommy talks about how physical exercise improves depression, introduces listeners to Saint Angela Merici, and answers listener questions about how to know if we're actually sorry for our sins, how to recognize and fight back against imposter syndrome, and how to be okay with unplugging from all the bad news.\n\nGet the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code \"BEWELL\" for 25% off.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how physical exercise improves depression, introduces listeners to Saint Angela Merici, and answers listener questions about how to know if we're actually sorry for our sins, how to recognize and fight back against imposter syndrome, and how to be okay with unplugging from all the bad news.

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Get the Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook. Use code "BEWELL" for 25% off.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how physical exercise improves depression, introduces listeners to Saint Angela Merici, and answers listener questions about how to know if we're actually sorry for our sins, how to recognize and fight back against imposter syndrome, and how to be okay with unplugging from all the bad news.","date_published":"2022-02-05T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/56176979-5d70-4d40-871e-7764e21e9473.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12353044,"duration_in_seconds":1028}]},{"id":"51ad4470-3b7c-462e-819e-f3fb2f4d3a68","title":"110: Cheating OCD And What To Do About It","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/110","content_text":"Tommy talks about the new mental health startup led by Simone Biles, introduces listeners to Saint Sabbas, and answers listener questions about how to find peace when we still haven't found our vocation, how to know when a spouse isn't interested in rebuilding a relationship, and how to work through irrational and baseless fears about our spouse cheating on us. \n\nThe Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the new mental health startup led by Simone Biles, introduces listeners to Saint Sabbas, and answers listener questions about how to find peace when we still haven't found our vocation, how to know when a spouse isn't interested in rebuilding a relationship, and how to work through irrational and baseless fears about our spouse cheating on us.

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The Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the new mental health startup led by Simone Biles, introduces listeners to Saint Sabbas, and answers listener questions about how to find peace when we still haven't found our vocation, how to know when a spouse isn't interested in rebuilding a relationship, and how to work through irrational and baseless fears about our spouse cheating on us. ","date_published":"2021-12-25T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/51ad4470-3b7c-462e-819e-f3fb2f4d3a68.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13255736,"duration_in_seconds":1104}]},{"id":"d6f66fb6-d8a7-4740-81ef-9e80ee9a207a","title":"109: Mental Illness and Demonic Possession","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/109","content_text":"Tommy talks about research into a blood test hoping to help with diagnosing mood disorders, introduces listeners to Blessed Rafal Chylinski, and answers listener questions about how to respond when someone suggests that a mental illness might be demonic possession, how to have difficult conversations with our young children, and how to battle feelings of shame and guilt when recovering from addiction. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about research into a blood test hoping to help with diagnosing mood disorders, introduces listeners to Blessed Rafal Chylinski, and answers listener questions about how to respond when someone suggests that a mental illness might be demonic possession, how to have difficult conversations with our young children, and how to battle feelings of shame and guilt when recovering from addiction.

","summary":"Tommy talks about research into a blood test hoping to help with diagnosing mood disorders, introduces listeners to Blessed Rafal Chylinski, and answers listener questions about how to respond when someone suggests that a mental illness might be demonic possession, how to have difficult conversations with our young children, and how to battle feelings of shame and guilt when recovering from addiction. ","date_published":"2021-12-18T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/d6f66fb6-d8a7-4740-81ef-9e80ee9a207a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12448509,"duration_in_seconds":1036}]},{"id":"327831dc-9031-4a5f-829e-72fe23742704","title":"108: When Silence Makes Us Anxious","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/108","content_text":"Tommy talks about the importance of supporting the mental health of kids and young adults, introduces listeners to Saint James of the Marches, and answers listener questions about how to find healing after an affair, what to do when sitting in silence makes us feel anxious, and how to walk with a child who has questions about gender identity. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the importance of supporting the mental health of kids and young adults, introduces listeners to Saint James of the Marches, and answers listener questions about how to find healing after an affair, what to do when sitting in silence makes us feel anxious, and how to walk with a child who has questions about gender identity.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the importance of supporting the mental health of kids and young adults, introduces listeners to Saint James of the Marches, and answers listener questions about how to find healing after an affair, what to do when sitting in silence makes us feel anxious, and how to walk with a child who has questions about gender identity. ","date_published":"2021-12-11T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/327831dc-9031-4a5f-829e-72fe23742704.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":13224436,"duration_in_seconds":1101}]},{"id":"ae35ece9-0b37-46bd-bdfd-d9e3338b9f06","title":"107: Helping a Scrupulous Partner ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/107","content_text":"Tommy talks about Selena Gomez's new mental health venture, introduces listeners to Blessed Eustochium of Padua, and answers listener questions about how to help someone after you've referred them to counseling, how to help a family member who doesn't want help, and how to support a partner who is experiencing religious OCD. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Selena Gomez's new mental health venture, introduces listeners to Blessed Eustochium of Padua, and answers listener questions about how to help someone after you've referred them to counseling, how to help a family member who doesn't want help, and how to support a partner who is experiencing religious OCD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Selena Gomez's new mental health venture, introduces listeners to Blessed Eustochium of Padua, and answers listener questions about how to help someone after you've referred them to counseling, how to help a family member who doesn't want help, and how to support a partner who is experiencing religious OCD. ","date_published":"2021-12-04T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ae35ece9-0b37-46bd-bdfd-d9e3338b9f06.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":16901247,"duration_in_seconds":1407}]},{"id":"28046381-79c4-4d5f-9d28-fc1b2e738e02","title":"106: When the Church Gets it Wrong on Suicide","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/106","content_text":"Tommy talks about Pope Francis' prayer intention for the month of November, introduces listeners to Saint Agnes of Assisi, and answers listener questions about how the experience of trauma might impact our ability to meditate on the wounds of Christ, how to know when we might need medication for anxiety, and how to respond when our parish hands out a pamphlet that gets it wrong on suicide.\n\nThe Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Pope Francis' prayer intention for the month of November, introduces listeners to Saint Agnes of Assisi, and answers listener questions about how the experience of trauma might impact our ability to meditate on the wounds of Christ, how to know when we might need medication for anxiety, and how to respond when our parish hands out a pamphlet that gets it wrong on suicide.

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The Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about Pope Francis' prayer intention for the month of November, introduces listeners to Saint Agnes of Assisi, and answers listener questions about how the experience of trauma might impact our ability to meditate on the wounds of Christ, how to know when we might need medication for anxiety, and how to respond when our parish hands out a pamphlet that gets it wrong on suicide.","date_published":"2021-11-27T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/28046381-79c4-4d5f-9d28-fc1b2e738e02.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":23756886,"duration_in_seconds":989}]},{"id":"eb31ca1c-172d-43d7-a7bb-56851a8d214a","title":"105: What's a Crisis Plan and How do I Make One? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/105","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to create a personal plan for times of crisis, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Scotland, and answers listener questions about how to recognize if a therapist is bad or unethical, how to cope with not being on the same page in marriage, and how to support a friend who is contemplating suicide while still taking care of ourselves. \n\nThe Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to create a personal plan for times of crisis, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Scotland, and answers listener questions about how to recognize if a therapist is bad or unethical, how to cope with not being on the same page in marriage, and how to support a friend who is contemplating suicide while still taking care of ourselves.

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The Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to create a personal plan for times of crisis, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Scotland, and answers listener questions about how to recognize if a therapist is bad or unethical, how to cope with not being on the same page in marriage, and how to support a friend who is contemplating suicide while still taking care of ourselves. ","date_published":"2021-11-20T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/eb31ca1c-172d-43d7-a7bb-56851a8d214a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":32309924,"duration_in_seconds":1345}]},{"id":"fbc5be5b-c548-4181-ad13-4de01e34f923","title":"104: Did Adam and Eve Have Anxiety? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/104","content_text":"Tommy talks about the why God would allow us to suffer from mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Gertrude the Great, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety-caused nightmares, how to help a daughter experiencing symptoms related to PTSD, and how to engage in our faith when we feel like our local parish isn't doing enough to keep us safe.\n\nThe Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the why God would allow us to suffer from mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Gertrude the Great, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety-caused nightmares, how to help a daughter experiencing symptoms related to PTSD, and how to engage in our faith when we feel like our local parish isn't doing enough to keep us safe.

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The Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the why God would allow us to suffer from mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Gertrude the Great, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety-caused nightmares, how to help a daughter experiencing symptoms related to PTSD, and how to engage in our faith when we feel like our local parish isn't doing enough to keep us safe.","date_published":"2021-11-13T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/fbc5be5b-c548-4181-ad13-4de01e34f923.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":10552668,"duration_in_seconds":878}]},{"id":"88d3b78b-fb3d-439f-aff3-7a063863d7c7","title":"103: When The News Robs Our Mental Wellbeing ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/103","content_text":"Tommy talks about the how to use social media in a way that protects our mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartholomew of Vicenza, and answers listener questions about how to maintain our mental health when the news is so negative, how we should deal with our consumer-driven society as Catholics, and how a Godparent can help a a child with autism grow closer to Christ. \n\nThe Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the how to use social media in a way that protects our mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartholomew of Vicenza, and answers listener questions about how to maintain our mental health when the news is so negative, how we should deal with our consumer-driven society as Catholics, and how a Godparent can help a a child with autism grow closer to Christ.

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The Saint Dymphna's Playbook Book is HERE! Order yours now: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the how to use social media in a way that protects our mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartholomew of Vicenza, and answers listener questions about how to maintain our mental health when the news is so negative, how we should deal with our consumer-driven society as Catholics, and how a Godparent can help a a child with autism grow closer to Christ. ","date_published":"2021-11-06T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/88d3b78b-fb3d-439f-aff3-7a063863d7c7.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":11986521,"duration_in_seconds":998}]},{"id":"ee9d8a66-f74c-476f-ae95-aee32f42efee","title":"102: How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to Others? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/102","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to stop comparing ourselves to those around us, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsus Rodriguez, and answers listener questions about the difference between scrupulosity and genuine spiritual concern, how to help a family member understand that mental illness isn't about being weak, and how often a couple should have a big check-in conversation to make sure they're on the same page. \n\nExciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to stop comparing ourselves to those around us, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsus Rodriguez, and answers listener questions about the difference between scrupulosity and genuine spiritual concern, how to help a family member understand that mental illness isn't about being weak, and how often a couple should have a big check-in conversation to make sure they're on the same page.

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Exciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to stop comparing ourselves to those around us, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsus Rodriguez, and answers listener questions about the difference between scrupulosity and genuine spiritual concern, how to help a family member understand that mental illness isn't about being weak, and how often a couple should have a big check-in conversation to make sure they're on the same page. ","date_published":"2021-10-30T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ee9d8a66-f74c-476f-ae95-aee32f42efee.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12242868,"duration_in_seconds":1019}]},{"id":"d1ff7d9f-fd79-47fe-bcb6-c3872e9c0b5f","title":"101: When I Need To Walk Out of Mass","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/101","content_text":"Tommy talks about the how to get our prayer life back on track in the context of mental health symptoms, introduces listeners to Blessed Frédéric Ozanam, and answers listener questions about how the Church can better love people when mental health struggles impact their faith, how to address the need to walk out of Mass due to anxiety, and how to cope with a roommate who may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. \n\nExciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the how to get our prayer life back on track in the context of mental health symptoms, introduces listeners to Blessed Frédéric Ozanam, and answers listener questions about how the Church can better love people when mental health struggles impact their faith, how to address the need to walk out of Mass due to anxiety, and how to cope with a roommate who may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

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Exciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the how to get our prayer life back on track in the context of mental health symptoms, introduces listeners to Blessed Frédéric Ozanam, and answers listener questions about how the Church can better love people when mental health struggles impact their faith, how to address the need to walk out of Mass due to anxiety, and how to cope with a roommate who may have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. ","date_published":"2021-10-23T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/d1ff7d9f-fd79-47fe-bcb6-c3872e9c0b5f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":17642118,"duration_in_seconds":1469}]},{"id":"060febd2-5b19-4a15-b9af-25608c9e7402","title":"100: Do I need a Catholic Therapist? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/100","content_text":"Tommy talks about the idea of wanting to see a Catholic therapist, introduces listeners to Blessed Claudio Granzotto, and answers listener questions about how to take care of our mental health with all the bad news around us, why those of us with ADHD seem to engage in impulsive behavior, and how to help those around us understand our mental health experience and needs. \n\nExciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the idea of wanting to see a Catholic therapist, introduces listeners to Blessed Claudio Granzotto, and answers listener questions about how to take care of our mental health with all the bad news around us, why those of us with ADHD seem to engage in impulsive behavior, and how to help those around us understand our mental health experience and needs.

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Exciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about the idea of wanting to see a Catholic therapist, introduces listeners to Blessed Claudio Granzotto, and answers listener questions about how to take care of our mental health with all the bad news around us, why those of us with ADHD seem to engage in impulsive behavior, and how to help those around us understand our mental health experience and needs. ","date_published":"2021-10-16T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/060febd2-5b19-4a15-b9af-25608c9e7402.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":14432929,"duration_in_seconds":1202}]},{"id":"55554c64-d233-4a8a-8fff-3bc183867f4a","title":"99: How Do We Know When a Therapist is Bad? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/99","content_text":"Tommy talks about Apple's plan to use iPhones to screen for depression, introduces listeners to Saint Giles, and answers listener questions about how families can cope with military deployment, how teachers can avoid burnout, and how to recognize when a therapist might not be a good fit. \n\nExciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Apple's plan to use iPhones to screen for depression, introduces listeners to Saint Giles, and answers listener questions about how families can cope with military deployment, how teachers can avoid burnout, and how to recognize when a therapist might not be a good fit.

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Exciting news! Tommy wrote a Saint Dymphna's Playbook BOOK, which comes out November 5th. Born out of this podcast, the book serves as a more in-depth guide to finding mental and emotional well-being through a therapeutic approach combined with Catholic faith and spiritual practice. Learn more and pre-order here: https://www.avemariapress.com/products/st-dymphnas-playbook

","summary":"Tommy talks about Apple's plan to use iPhones to screen for depression, introduces listeners to Saint Giles, and answers listener questions about how families can cope with military deployment, how teachers can avoid burnout, and how to recognize when a therapist might not be a good fit. ","date_published":"2021-10-09T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/55554c64-d233-4a8a-8fff-3bc183867f4a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":12101705,"duration_in_seconds":1007}]},{"id":"218631c2-6170-4382-b1bb-49b22c4482e2","title":"98: When Church is a Trigger","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/98","content_text":"Tommy talks about a mental health app created by college students, introduces listeners to Saint Rose of Viterbo, and answers listener questions about how to grow close to the Church when the Church triggers feelings around past trauma, how veterans can process the news happening overseas, and how to recognize and cope with vicarious trauma brought on by our work. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a mental health app created by college students, introduces listeners to Saint Rose of Viterbo, and answers listener questions about how to grow close to the Church when the Church triggers feelings around past trauma, how veterans can process the news happening overseas, and how to recognize and cope with vicarious trauma brought on by our work.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a mental health app created by college students, introduces listeners to Saint Rose of Viterbo, and answers listener questions about how to grow close to the Church when the Church triggers feelings around past trauma, how veterans can process the news happening overseas, and how to recognize and cope with vicarious trauma brought on by our work. ","date_published":"2021-10-02T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/218631c2-6170-4382-b1bb-49b22c4482e2.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28038291,"duration_in_seconds":1168}]},{"id":"047efc09-2d07-4526-91e2-54e427b0cdf6","title":"97: The Battle Against Perfectionism ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/97","content_text":"Tommy talks about the 988 mental health crisis line getting funded in California, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph Calasanz, and answers listener questions about how help a friend who is overwhelmed by the need to be perfect, how to cope with intrusive thoughts around God and the afterlife, and how to find peace in a Church that's sadly the very place of our trauma. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the 988 mental health crisis line getting funded in California, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph Calasanz, and answers listener questions about how help a friend who is overwhelmed by the need to be perfect, how to cope with intrusive thoughts around God and the afterlife, and how to find peace in a Church that's sadly the very place of our trauma.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the 988 mental health crisis line getting funded in California, introduces listeners to Saint Joseph Calasanz, and answers listener questions about how help a friend who is overwhelmed by the need to be perfect, how to cope with intrusive thoughts around God and the afterlife, and how to find peace in a Church that's sadly the very place of our trauma. ","date_published":"2021-09-25T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/047efc09-2d07-4526-91e2-54e427b0cdf6.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27606330,"duration_in_seconds":1150}]},{"id":"1916594c-03e6-4e3f-83cc-b6e1915221f2","title":"96: Honoring Your Father and Mother With Boundaries ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/96","content_text":"Tommy talks about the Illinois law allowing children to take mental health days from school, introduces listeners to Saint Joan of the Cross, and answers listener questions about how to help a friend in his journey with his wife's diagnosis, how to honor one's father and mother while setting boundaries at the same time, and how to recognize and cope with anxiety related to climate change. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the Illinois law allowing children to take mental health days from school, introduces listeners to Saint Joan of the Cross, and answers listener questions about how to help a friend in his journey with his wife's diagnosis, how to honor one's father and mother while setting boundaries at the same time, and how to recognize and cope with anxiety related to climate change.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the Illinois law allowing children to take mental health days from school, introduces listeners to Saint Joan of the Cross, and answers listener questions about how to help a friend in his journey with his wife's diagnosis, how to honor one's father and mother while setting boundaries at the same time, and how to recognize and cope with anxiety related to climate change. ","date_published":"2021-09-18T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/1916594c-03e6-4e3f-83cc-b6e1915221f2.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28275274,"duration_in_seconds":1177}]},{"id":"a13c2aaa-11f4-4112-9fec-08af87450178","title":"95: OCD and planning for the future ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/95","content_text":"Tommy talks about online counseling services, introduces listeners to Saint Cajetan, and answers listener questions about how to approach a conversation about the future considering symptoms of OCD, how to support a friend facing infidelity, and the importance of mental health and wellness for caregivers.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about online counseling services, introduces listeners to Saint Cajetan, and answers listener questions about how to approach a conversation about the future considering symptoms of OCD, how to support a friend facing infidelity, and the importance of mental health and wellness for caregivers.

","summary":"Tommy talks about online counseling services, introduces listeners to Saint Cajetan, and answers listener questions about how to approach a conversation about the future considering symptoms of OCD, how to support a friend facing infidelity, and the importance of mental health and wellness for caregivers.","date_published":"2021-09-11T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/a13c2aaa-11f4-4112-9fec-08af87450178.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27040204,"duration_in_seconds":1126}]},{"id":"6578b4bc-492c-4b03-8491-5a231a173a83","title":"94: When Confession Doesn't Feel Good","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/94","content_text":"Tommy talks about the differences between therapy and spiritual direction, introduces listeners to Blessed Stanley Rother, and answers listener questions about how the faith relates to Overeaters Anonymous, how to approach confession when it leaves us feeling like we did something wrong, and how to understand mental health and marital harmony in the context of the Church's teaching on Natural Family Planning.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the differences between therapy and spiritual direction, introduces listeners to Blessed Stanley Rother, and answers listener questions about how the faith relates to Overeaters Anonymous, how to approach confession when it leaves us feeling like we did something wrong, and how to understand mental health and marital harmony in the context of the Church's teaching on Natural Family Planning.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the differences between therapy and spiritual direction, introduces listeners to Blessed Stanley Rother, and answers listener questions about how the faith relates to Overeaters Anonymous, how to approach confession when it leaves us feeling like we did something wrong, and how to understand mental health and marital harmony in the context of the Church's teaching on Natural Family Planning.","date_published":"2021-09-04T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/6578b4bc-492c-4b03-8491-5a231a173a83.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29895911,"duration_in_seconds":1245}]},{"id":"8f902201-3ea2-4aee-9659-106861cf0a14","title":"93: Do I Use My Mental Health As a Crutch? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/93","content_text":"Tommy talks about involuntary psychiatric hospitalizations, introduces listeners to Saint Sharbel Makhlouf, and answers listener questions about how to respond to someone who says we use our mental health symptoms as a crutch, if we should pray for our abusers who have died, and how to interact with an adult child who identifies as transgender. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about involuntary psychiatric hospitalizations, introduces listeners to Saint Sharbel Makhlouf, and answers listener questions about how to respond to someone who says we use our mental health symptoms as a crutch, if we should pray for our abusers who have died, and how to interact with an adult child who identifies as transgender.

","summary":"Tommy talks about involuntary psychiatric hospitalizations, introduces listeners to Saint Sharbel Makhlouf, and answers listener questions about how to respond to someone who says we use our mental health symptoms as a crutch, if we should pray for our abusers who have died, and how to interact with an adult child who identifies as transgender. ","date_published":"2021-08-28T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/8f902201-3ea2-4aee-9659-106861cf0a14.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29322889,"duration_in_seconds":1221}]},{"id":"584da8cb-fc1b-410d-a237-708c0c4fbc19","title":"92: When Medication Dosages Keep Going Up ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/92","content_text":"Tommy talks about the mental health considerations in interfaith marriages, introduces listeners to Saint Mary MacKillop, and answers listener questions about mental health medications increasing in dosage over time, how to approach an examination of conscience in the context of depression, and the connections between binge eating and OCD. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the mental health considerations in interfaith marriages, introduces listeners to Saint Mary MacKillop, and answers listener questions about mental health medications increasing in dosage over time, how to approach an examination of conscience in the context of depression, and the connections between binge eating and OCD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the mental health considerations in interfaith marriages, introduces listeners to Saint Mary MacKillop, and answers listener questions about mental health medications increasing in dosage over time, how to approach an examination of conscience in the context of depression, and the connections between binge eating and OCD. ","date_published":"2021-08-21T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/584da8cb-fc1b-410d-a237-708c0c4fbc19.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30092769,"duration_in_seconds":1253}]},{"id":"a0878cf4-aebb-4ab1-9e41-d29a55296e80","title":"91: Does Jesus Want Us To Hate Ourselves? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/91","content_text":"Tommy talks about the impact COVID-19 has had on postpartum depression for women of color, introduces listeners to Saint Veronica Giuliani, and answers listener questions about how to understand the words of Jesus about hating our lives, the ideas around co-sleeping with older children, and how to talk to a family member who needs help with anxiety. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the impact COVID-19 has had on postpartum depression for women of color, introduces listeners to Saint Veronica Giuliani, and answers listener questions about how to understand the words of Jesus about hating our lives, the ideas around co-sleeping with older children, and how to talk to a family member who needs help with anxiety.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the impact COVID-19 has had on postpartum depression for women of color, introduces listeners to Saint Veronica Giuliani, and answers listener questions about how to understand the words of Jesus about hating our lives, the ideas around co-sleeping with older children, and how to talk to a family member who needs help with anxiety. ","date_published":"2021-08-14T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/a0878cf4-aebb-4ab1-9e41-d29a55296e80.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30092769,"duration_in_seconds":1253}]},{"id":"b61f0fce-b19c-458e-b946-7edbc12fe43f","title":"90: I Feel Like A Fraud! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/90","content_text":"Tommy talks about the therapeutic approach known as EMDR, introduces listeners to Blessed Jutta of Thuringia, and answers listener questions about how faith and feelings go together, how to navigate being asked to help at the parish when we don't feel good enough, and what forgiveness means in the context of healing after abuse.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the therapeutic approach known as EMDR, introduces listeners to Blessed Jutta of Thuringia, and answers listener questions about how faith and feelings go together, how to navigate being asked to help at the parish when we don't feel good enough, and what forgiveness means in the context of healing after abuse.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the therapeutic approach known as EMDR, introduces listeners to Blessed Jutta of Thuringia, and answers listener questions about how faith and feelings go together, how to navigate being asked to help at the parish when we don't feel good enough, and what forgiveness means in the context of healing after abuse.","date_published":"2021-07-03T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/b61f0fce-b19c-458e-b946-7edbc12fe43f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28395646,"duration_in_seconds":1182}]},{"id":"0eb9349a-7f49-4721-a57f-8f2492935fd6","title":"89: A Vatican Document on Mental Health?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/89","content_text":"Tommy talks about the impact of the pandemic on the mental health of extroverts, introduces listeners to Saint Albert Chmielowski, and answers listener questions about how to come to terms with a mental health diagnosis, the impact anger has on our health and spiritual wellbeing, and a new Vatican document that talks about mental health and emotional wellbeing.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the impact of the pandemic on the mental health of extroverts, introduces listeners to Saint Albert Chmielowski, and answers listener questions about how to come to terms with a mental health diagnosis, the impact anger has on our health and spiritual wellbeing, and a new Vatican document that talks about mental health and emotional wellbeing.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the impact of the pandemic on the mental health of extroverts, introduces listeners to Saint Albert Chmielowski, and answers listener questions about how to come to terms with a mental health diagnosis, the impact anger has on our health and spiritual wellbeing, and a new Vatican document that talks about mental health and emotional wellbeing.","date_published":"2021-06-26T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/0eb9349a-7f49-4721-a57f-8f2492935fd6.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":34376015,"duration_in_seconds":1432}]},{"id":"57c58ad7-e287-43f2-94e3-bb44d8179b5d","title":"88: Can I Lose My Job if I Go To Therapy?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/88","content_text":"Tommy talks about atypical symptoms of depression, introduces listeners to Blessed Yolanda of Poland, and answers listener questions about the feeling we have when a doctor suggests a medication for our mental health, if our job can be at risk simply because we seek out mental health treatment, and if we should avoid marriage and having kids because of our struggles with depression. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about atypical symptoms of depression, introduces listeners to Blessed Yolanda of Poland, and answers listener questions about the feeling we have when a doctor suggests a medication for our mental health, if our job can be at risk simply because we seek out mental health treatment, and if we should avoid marriage and having kids because of our struggles with depression.

","summary":"Tommy talks about atypical symptoms of depression, introduces listeners to Blessed Yolanda of Poland, and answers listener questions about the feeling we have when a doctor suggests a medication for our mental health, if our job can be at risk simply because we seek out mental health treatment, and if we should avoid marriage and having kids because of our struggles with depression. ","date_published":"2021-06-19T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/57c58ad7-e287-43f2-94e3-bb44d8179b5d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25506712,"duration_in_seconds":1062}]},{"id":"ff596fec-1ac4-4c97-9e6c-645aa3c2f6b0","title":"87: When They Don't Respect Your Boundaries","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/87","content_text":"Tommy talks about racial disparities in diagnosing mental health experiences, introduces listeners to Blessed Franz Jägerstätter, and answers listener questions about how to deal with a family member who won't respect healthy boundaries, the effectiveness of intensive outpatient programs for anxiety, and how best to help a spouse who is living with an anxiety disorder. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about racial disparities in diagnosing mental health experiences, introduces listeners to Blessed Franz Jägerstätter, and answers listener questions about how to deal with a family member who won't respect healthy boundaries, the effectiveness of intensive outpatient programs for anxiety, and how best to help a spouse who is living with an anxiety disorder.

","summary":"Tommy talks about racial disparities in diagnosing mental health experiences, introduces listeners to Blessed Franz Jägerstätter, and answers listener questions about how to deal with a family member who won't respect healthy boundaries, the effectiveness of intensive outpatient programs for anxiety, and how best to help a spouse who is living with an anxiety disorder. ","date_published":"2021-06-12T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ff596fec-1ac4-4c97-9e6c-645aa3c2f6b0.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27005723,"duration_in_seconds":1125}]},{"id":"031083a4-97dc-438c-bc50-848b38de4084","title":"86: Vocation Anxiety ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/86","content_text":"Tommy talks about the new work being done to better understand the physiology of mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety related to finding your vocation, how to help a friend suffering from postpartum anxiety, and how to deal with feelings of guilt about the impact depression had on our ability to take care of ourselves. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the new work being done to better understand the physiology of mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety related to finding your vocation, how to help a friend suffering from postpartum anxiety, and how to deal with feelings of guilt about the impact depression had on our ability to take care of ourselves.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the new work being done to better understand the physiology of mental illness, introduces listeners to Saint Madeleine Sophie Barat, and answers listener questions about how to cope with anxiety related to finding your vocation, how to help a friend suffering from postpartum anxiety, and how to deal with feelings of guilt about the impact depression had on our ability to take care of ourselves. ","date_published":"2021-06-05T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/031083a4-97dc-438c-bc50-848b38de4084.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25228351,"duration_in_seconds":1051}]},{"id":"72869131-ade2-4f54-b9ee-c2ea4eb1d747","title":"85: Healing and Deliverance Prayer ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/85","content_text":"Tommy talks about the potential link between depression and social media, introduces listeners to Saint Rose Venerini, and answers listener questions about coping with anxiety and depression in the context of defending Church teaching, how to work through procrastination, and the idea of healing through deliverance prayer. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the potential link between depression and social media, introduces listeners to Saint Rose Venerini, and answers listener questions about coping with anxiety and depression in the context of defending Church teaching, how to work through procrastination, and the idea of healing through deliverance prayer.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the potential link between depression and social media, introduces listeners to Saint Rose Venerini, and answers listener questions about coping with anxiety and depression in the context of defending Church teaching, how to work through procrastination, and the idea of healing through deliverance prayer. ","date_published":"2021-05-29T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/72869131-ade2-4f54-b9ee-c2ea4eb1d747.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28515391,"duration_in_seconds":1187}]},{"id":"29dd8160-949d-4e4b-9c68-e9d450cfc575","title":"84: Agoraphobia and Confession ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/84","content_text":"Tommy talks about not being able to get to confession because of one's anxiety and a new mental health program coming to AppleTV+, introduces listeners to Blessed Marie Anne Blondin, and answers listener questions about Relationship OCD, how to go about finding a good therapist, and how to help a spouse whose anxiety and panic keeps them from Mass.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about not being able to get to confession because of one's anxiety and a new mental health program coming to AppleTV+, introduces listeners to Blessed Marie Anne Blondin, and answers listener questions about Relationship OCD, how to go about finding a good therapist, and how to help a spouse whose anxiety and panic keeps them from Mass.

","summary":"Tommy talks about not being able to get to confession because of one's anxiety and a new mental health program coming to AppleTV+, introduces listeners to Blessed Marie Anne Blondin, and answers listener questions about Relationship OCD, how to go about finding a good therapist, and how to help a spouse whose anxiety and panic keeps them from Mass.","date_published":"2021-05-22T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/29dd8160-949d-4e4b-9c68-e9d450cfc575.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":33224329,"duration_in_seconds":1384}]},{"id":"153085d9-2e26-4a8a-b238-cb52758fb8f1","title":"83: Major Depression and Postponing Pregnancy ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/83","content_text":"Tommy talks about whether therapists should share their personal opinions, discusses Kristen Bell's recent words on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Francis of Paola, and answers listener questions about Childhood Emotional Neglect, how to help a child with Borderline Personality Disorder, and how to navigate having kids vs. postponing pregnancy when considering one's own depression. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about whether therapists should share their personal opinions, discusses Kristen Bell's recent words on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Francis of Paola, and answers listener questions about Childhood Emotional Neglect, how to help a child with Borderline Personality Disorder, and how to navigate having kids vs. postponing pregnancy when considering one's own depression.

","summary":"Tommy talks about whether therapists should share their personal opinions, discusses Kristen Bell's recent words on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Francis of Paola, and answers listener questions about Childhood Emotional Neglect, how to help a child with Borderline Personality Disorder, and how to navigate having kids vs. postponing pregnancy when considering one's own depression. ","date_published":"2021-05-15T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/153085d9-2e26-4a8a-b238-cb52758fb8f1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":36063734,"duration_in_seconds":1502}]},{"id":"eec07432-211c-4b05-a5c4-b7b6c715f303","title":"82: Existential OCD ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/82","content_text":"Tommy talks about the disparities in COVID-related mental health experiences, discusses concerns about privacy on mental health apps, introduces listeners to Saint Teresa of the Andes, and answers listener questions about how to help a loved one with depression who can be overwhelming at times, how to approach identifying as LGBT as a religious sister, and how to help someone suffering from existential OCD. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the disparities in COVID-related mental health experiences, discusses concerns about privacy on mental health apps, introduces listeners to Saint Teresa of the Andes, and answers listener questions about how to help a loved one with depression who can be overwhelming at times, how to approach identifying as LGBT as a religious sister, and how to help someone suffering from existential OCD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the disparities in COVID-related mental health experiences, discusses concerns about privacy on mental health apps, introduces listeners to Saint Teresa of the Andes, and answers listener questions about how to help a loved one with depression who can be overwhelming at times, how to approach identifying as LGBT as a religious sister, and how to help someone suffering from existential OCD. ","date_published":"2021-05-08T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/eec07432-211c-4b05-a5c4-b7b6c715f303.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30083992,"duration_in_seconds":1253}]},{"id":"3ee24fe3-a0c1-460a-b549-4a21cb143e46","title":"81: How Do People Afford Therapy? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/81","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to find a therapist that doesn't charge an arm and a leg, discusses how teachers can support students and families, introduces listeners to Blessed Marguerite Rutan, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the return of anxiety after the pandemic, how to approach the situation of a young child engaging in seemingly sexual behaviors, and how to recognize and recover from verbal abuse.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to find a therapist that doesn't charge an arm and a leg, discusses how teachers can support students and families, introduces listeners to Blessed Marguerite Rutan, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the return of anxiety after the pandemic, how to approach the situation of a young child engaging in seemingly sexual behaviors, and how to recognize and recover from verbal abuse.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to find a therapist that doesn't charge an arm and a leg, discusses how teachers can support students and families, introduces listeners to Blessed Marguerite Rutan, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the return of anxiety after the pandemic, how to approach the situation of a young child engaging in seemingly sexual behaviors, and how to recognize and recover from verbal abuse.","date_published":"2021-05-01T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/3ee24fe3-a0c1-460a-b549-4a21cb143e46.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31926565,"duration_in_seconds":1330}]},{"id":"3b721740-f611-47a0-8ae7-c5cb382e8ba9","title":"80: When Holy Week Brings Memories of Our Trauma ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/80","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to figure out which therapeutic modality is right for you and explores a recent study on exercise and anxiety during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Saint Julie Billiart, and answers listener questions about how a priest can help scrupulous penitents, how to battle intrusive thoughts of anxiety about where a relationship may be headed, and how to survive Holy Week when one experiences flashbacks and intense memories of trauma from the past. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to figure out which therapeutic modality is right for you and explores a recent study on exercise and anxiety during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Saint Julie Billiart, and answers listener questions about how a priest can help scrupulous penitents, how to battle intrusive thoughts of anxiety about where a relationship may be headed, and how to survive Holy Week when one experiences flashbacks and intense memories of trauma from the past.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to figure out which therapeutic modality is right for you and explores a recent study on exercise and anxiety during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Saint Julie Billiart, and answers listener questions about how a priest can help scrupulous penitents, how to battle intrusive thoughts of anxiety about where a relationship may be headed, and how to survive Holy Week when one experiences flashbacks and intense memories of trauma from the past. ","date_published":"2021-04-24T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/3b721740-f611-47a0-8ae7-c5cb382e8ba9.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31999290,"duration_in_seconds":1333}]},{"id":"67a6e795-865b-4d20-8bf8-4ba3a402a458","title":"79: Another One For The Scrupulous Out There","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/79","content_text":"Tommy talks about potential patron saints for those of us experiencing suicidal ideation and discusses a study that shows the mental health impact of surviving Covid-19, introduces listeners to Blessed Maria de San Jose, and answers listener questions about the impact of childhood trauma as we live through adulthood, how to approach our mental health needs with an employer, and what to do when we experience Religious OCD. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about potential patron saints for those of us experiencing suicidal ideation and discusses a study that shows the mental health impact of surviving Covid-19, introduces listeners to Blessed Maria de San Jose, and answers listener questions about the impact of childhood trauma as we live through adulthood, how to approach our mental health needs with an employer, and what to do when we experience Religious OCD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about potential patron saints for those of us experiencing suicidal ideation and discusses a study that shows the mental health impact of surviving Covid-19, introduces listeners to Blessed Maria de San Jose, and answers listener questions about the impact of childhood trauma as we live through adulthood, how to approach our mental health needs with an employer, and what to do when we experience Religious OCD. ","date_published":"2021-04-17T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/67a6e795-865b-4d20-8bf8-4ba3a402a458.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":37669952,"duration_in_seconds":1569}]},{"id":"1ca93377-e954-4ce6-9b87-9e02163cb9bc","title":"78: Setting Healthy Boundaries Helps Everyone","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/78","content_text":"Tommy talks about the national 988 suicide prevention lifeline and the view of depression being shared on You Tube, introduces listeners to Blessed Angela Salawa, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with depression who lives across the country, how to cope with a friend saying they can't listen to our struggles any more, and how to set healthy boundaries with someone suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the national 988 suicide prevention lifeline and the view of depression being shared on You Tube, introduces listeners to Blessed Angela Salawa, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with depression who lives across the country, how to cope with a friend saying they can't listen to our struggles any more, and how to set healthy boundaries with someone suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the national 988 suicide prevention lifeline and the view of depression being shared on You Tube, introduces listeners to Blessed Angela Salawa, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with depression who lives across the country, how to cope with a friend saying they can't listen to our struggles any more, and how to set healthy boundaries with someone suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder. ","date_published":"2021-04-10T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/1ca93377-e954-4ce6-9b87-9e02163cb9bc.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":35705125,"duration_in_seconds":1487}]},{"id":"f83bf6b3-d1ad-4ddc-aa45-18f756407a62","title":"77: When A Loved One Can't Stop Stealing","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/77","content_text":"Tommy talks about Prince Harry's advocacy for mental health and discusses a couple of exciting new laws in Nebraska, introduces listeners to Blessed Nikolaus Gross, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with kleptomania, how to navigate family functions with a loved one who is rightfully anxious around alcohol use, and how to share Church teaching without being a jerk. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Prince Harry's advocacy for mental health and discusses a couple of exciting new laws in Nebraska, introduces listeners to Blessed Nikolaus Gross, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with kleptomania, how to navigate family functions with a loved one who is rightfully anxious around alcohol use, and how to share Church teaching without being a jerk.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Prince Harry's advocacy for mental health and discusses a couple of exciting new laws in Nebraska, introduces listeners to Blessed Nikolaus Gross, and answers listener questions about how to support a loved one with kleptomania, how to navigate family functions with a loved one who is rightfully anxious around alcohol use, and how to share Church teaching without being a jerk. ","date_published":"2021-04-03T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f83bf6b3-d1ad-4ddc-aa45-18f756407a62.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28359911,"duration_in_seconds":1181}]},{"id":"9518cc5e-a396-4761-bd53-64806b39f332","title":"76: Mental Illness and Mortal Sin","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/76","content_text":"Tommy talks about what we can say when someone has experienced the death of a child and discusses the impact of diet and exercise on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Alix Le Clerc, and answers listener questions about how to help an 18-year-old who feels hopeless, how mental illness impacts our culpability for mortal sin, and if a Catholic can engage in iRest Nidra in a therapeutic context. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about what we can say when someone has experienced the death of a child and discusses the impact of diet and exercise on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Alix Le Clerc, and answers listener questions about how to help an 18-year-old who feels hopeless, how mental illness impacts our culpability for mortal sin, and if a Catholic can engage in iRest Nidra in a therapeutic context.

","summary":"Tommy talks about what we can say when someone has experienced the death of a child and discusses the impact of diet and exercise on mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Alix Le Clerc, and answers listener questions about how to help an 18-year-old who feels hopeless, how mental illness impacts our culpability for mortal sin, and if a Catholic can engage in iRest Nidra in a therapeutic context. ","date_published":"2021-03-27T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/9518cc5e-a396-4761-bd53-64806b39f332.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27430160,"duration_in_seconds":1142}]},{"id":"4e2e0299-834f-4482-9261-8223eca53b97","title":"75: The Danger of \"Just Stop Worrying\" ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/75","content_text":"Tommy talks about a recent video that attempted to help people with anxiety and explores how we can actually help our loved ones who are suffering from anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Marianne Cope, and answers listener questions about how to explain weird Catholic things to a non-Catholic therapist, how to encourage a loved one with Bipolar Disorder to get help, and how to maintain boundaries in the midst of a toxic roommate relationship. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a recent video that attempted to help people with anxiety and explores how we can actually help our loved ones who are suffering from anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Marianne Cope, and answers listener questions about how to explain weird Catholic things to a non-Catholic therapist, how to encourage a loved one with Bipolar Disorder to get help, and how to maintain boundaries in the midst of a toxic roommate relationship.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a recent video that attempted to help people with anxiety and explores how we can actually help our loved ones who are suffering from anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Marianne Cope, and answers listener questions about how to explain weird Catholic things to a non-Catholic therapist, how to encourage a loved one with Bipolar Disorder to get help, and how to maintain boundaries in the midst of a toxic roommate relationship. ","date_published":"2021-03-20T09:30:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/4e2e0299-834f-4482-9261-8223eca53b97.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":32419339,"duration_in_seconds":1350}]},{"id":"8d6cc17c-b817-4666-a551-04e5dfb5f57d","title":"74: Pope Francis Goes To therapy","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/74","content_text":"Tommy talks about Pope Francis' experience with therapy and discusses the rise of postpartum psychosis during the pandemic, shares a little bit about Saint John Bosco, and answers listener questions about how to cope with existential dread, how The Little Way might apply to mental health, and how Catholics should be loving and compassionate toward our sisters and brothers in the LGBTQ community. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Pope Francis' experience with therapy and discusses the rise of postpartum psychosis during the pandemic, shares a little bit about Saint John Bosco, and answers listener questions about how to cope with existential dread, how The Little Way might apply to mental health, and how Catholics should be loving and compassionate toward our sisters and brothers in the LGBTQ community.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Pope Francis' experience with therapy and discusses the rise of postpartum psychosis during the pandemic, shares a little bit about Saint John Bosco, and answers listener questions about how to cope with existential dread, how The Little Way might apply to mental health, and how Catholics should be loving and compassionate toward our sisters and brothers in the LGBTQ community. ","date_published":"2021-03-13T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/8d6cc17c-b817-4666-a551-04e5dfb5f57d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27468404,"duration_in_seconds":1144}]},{"id":"8d4cc484-bdd5-45a0-9574-a91b37d0c558","title":"73: Forgiving Someone Who Isn't Sorry","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/73","content_text":"Tommy talks about the LAPD's move to send out mental health professionals instead of officers and discusses Colorado's struggle with mental and emotional wellness, introduces listeners to Saint Jerome Emiliani, and answers listener questions about sin and scrupulosity, how to forgive someone who isn't sorry, and how to navigate a relationship when you feel like you have to hold something back about yourself from those who love you. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the LAPD's move to send out mental health professionals instead of officers and discusses Colorado's struggle with mental and emotional wellness, introduces listeners to Saint Jerome Emiliani, and answers listener questions about sin and scrupulosity, how to forgive someone who isn't sorry, and how to navigate a relationship when you feel like you have to hold something back about yourself from those who love you.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the LAPD's move to send out mental health professionals instead of officers and discusses Colorado's struggle with mental and emotional wellness, introduces listeners to Saint Jerome Emiliani, and answers listener questions about sin and scrupulosity, how to forgive someone who isn't sorry, and how to navigate a relationship when you feel like you have to hold something back about yourself from those who love you. ","date_published":"2021-03-06T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/8d4cc484-bdd5-45a0-9574-a91b37d0c558.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26138040,"duration_in_seconds":1088}]},{"id":"b3e63da5-ee41-4862-8846-a855a46ca4a3","title":"72: Preparing for Postpartum Depression","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/72","content_text":"Tommy talks about conservatorships in light of the Britney Spears documentary and discusses the mental health of young adults in Europe during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Donders, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the potential of postpartum depression, how to break free from thoughts of self-harm, and how to move forward into new relationships if we've had a bit of a wild past.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about conservatorships in light of the Britney Spears documentary and discusses the mental health of young adults in Europe during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Donders, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the potential of postpartum depression, how to break free from thoughts of self-harm, and how to move forward into new relationships if we've had a bit of a wild past.

","summary":"Tommy talks about conservatorships in light of the Britney Spears documentary and discusses the mental health of young adults in Europe during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Blessed Peter Donders, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the potential of postpartum depression, how to break free from thoughts of self-harm, and how to move forward into new relationships if we've had a bit of a wild past.","date_published":"2021-02-27T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/b3e63da5-ee41-4862-8846-a855a46ca4a3.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30873308,"duration_in_seconds":1286}]},{"id":"5f4fe893-ab7f-45d3-bc31-be562980cd3f","title":"71: The Line Between Mental Health And Sin","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/71","content_text":"Tommy talks about mental health in the NBA and the recent death of model Stella Tennant, introduces listeners to Blessed Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago, and answers listener questions about how to support one's family when a spouse is experiencing depression, the line between negative body image and vanity, and if our intrusive thoughts needs to be brought up in confession.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about mental health in the NBA and the recent death of model Stella Tennant, introduces listeners to Blessed Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago, and answers listener questions about how to support one's family when a spouse is experiencing depression, the line between negative body image and vanity, and if our intrusive thoughts needs to be brought up in confession.

","summary":"Tommy talks about mental health in the NBA and the recent death of model Stella Tennant, introduces listeners to Blessed Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago, and answers listener questions about how to support one's family when a spouse is experiencing depression, the line between negative body image and vanity, and if our intrusive thoughts needs to be brought up in confession.","date_published":"2021-02-20T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5f4fe893-ab7f-45d3-bc31-be562980cd3f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25802000,"duration_in_seconds":1074}]},{"id":"766aa97c-33ae-4413-99ec-6fb31024a40f","title":"70: The Time For Silence Is Over","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/70","content_text":"Tommy talks about the role of AI in screening for mental health and the New York school district bringing in early screening for mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Sára Salkaházi, and answers listener questions about how to reconnect with friends lost due to depression and anxiety, if a good Catholic can practice yoga, and how depression and anxiety impair our memory.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the role of AI in screening for mental health and the New York school district bringing in early screening for mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Sára Salkaházi, and answers listener questions about how to reconnect with friends lost due to depression and anxiety, if a good Catholic can practice yoga, and how depression and anxiety impair our memory.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the role of AI in screening for mental health and the New York school district bringing in early screening for mental health, introduces listeners to Blessed Sára Salkaházi, and answers listener questions about how to reconnect with friends lost due to depression and anxiety, if a good Catholic can practice yoga, and how depression and anxiety impair our memory.","date_published":"2021-01-09T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/766aa97c-33ae-4413-99ec-6fb31024a40f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":22974506,"duration_in_seconds":957}]},{"id":"f8f296a3-3665-4bd0-a43f-2b0c8eb774f4","title":"69: Scared To Death About Death","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/69","content_text":"Tommy talks about the power of forgiveness and what to consider when searching for a new therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Angela of Foligno, and answers listener questions about how to cope with a fear of death and loss, how to come back to the Church after an abusive relationship and a loss of one's Catholic community, and how to see God as a loving father when our own fathers here on earth have hurt us. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the power of forgiveness and what to consider when searching for a new therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Angela of Foligno, and answers listener questions about how to cope with a fear of death and loss, how to come back to the Church after an abusive relationship and a loss of one's Catholic community, and how to see God as a loving father when our own fathers here on earth have hurt us.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the power of forgiveness and what to consider when searching for a new therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Angela of Foligno, and answers listener questions about how to cope with a fear of death and loss, how to come back to the Church after an abusive relationship and a loss of one's Catholic community, and how to see God as a loving father when our own fathers here on earth have hurt us. ","date_published":"2021-01-02T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f8f296a3-3665-4bd0-a43f-2b0c8eb774f4.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28472760,"duration_in_seconds":1186}]},{"id":"5e1d164f-c555-42c3-95f3-19565d644f34","title":"68: What Exactly is a Nervous Breakdown? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/68","content_text":"Tommy talks about Olympic athlete Alexi Pappas' mental health journey and the promising development of mental health start-ups during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Mother Cabrini, and answers listener questions about family members who think mental illness is a weakness, trying to love the Church in the midst of the abuse crisis, and the terms and conditions for using the phrase \"nervous breakdown.\"","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Olympic athlete Alexi Pappas' mental health journey and the promising development of mental health start-ups during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Mother Cabrini, and answers listener questions about family members who think mental illness is a weakness, trying to love the Church in the midst of the abuse crisis, and the terms and conditions for using the phrase "nervous breakdown."

","summary":"Tommy talks about Olympic athlete Alexi Pappas' mental health journey and the promising development of mental health start-ups during the pandemic, introduces listeners to Mother Cabrini, and answers listener questions about family members who think mental illness is a weakness, trying to love the Church in the midst of the abuse crisis, and the terms and conditions for using the phrase \"nervous breakdown.\"","date_published":"2020-12-26T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5e1d164f-c555-42c3-95f3-19565d644f34.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24817706,"duration_in_seconds":1033}]},{"id":"07e046a9-6b8f-4c4a-94bc-18b8ada7e735","title":"67: Mental Illness IS NOT The Dark Night of the Soul","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/67","content_text":"Tommy talks about smartphone use and its impact on our mental health, discusses how to stay well during the COVID-19 holiday season, introduces listeners to Servant of God Sister Thea Bowman, and answers listener questions about the therapeutic modality known as PSYCH-K, if we should want to continue in our suffering because it brought us closer to God, and what to say when someone suggests having mental health symptoms is a huge blessing that means that we're highly favored by God.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about smartphone use and its impact on our mental health, discusses how to stay well during the COVID-19 holiday season, introduces listeners to Servant of God Sister Thea Bowman, and answers listener questions about the therapeutic modality known as PSYCH-K, if we should want to continue in our suffering because it brought us closer to God, and what to say when someone suggests having mental health symptoms is a huge blessing that means that we're highly favored by God.

","summary":"Tommy talks about smartphone use and its impact on our mental health, discusses how to stay well during the COVID-19 holiday season, introduces listeners to Servant of God Sister Thea Bowman, and answers listener questions about the therapeutic modality known as PSYCH-K, if we should want to continue in our suffering because it brought us closer to God, and what to say when someone suggests having mental health symptoms is a huge blessing that means that we're highly favored by God.","date_published":"2020-12-19T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/07e046a9-6b8f-4c4a-94bc-18b8ada7e735.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30806853,"duration_in_seconds":1283}]},{"id":"ec24d178-604b-440f-b0d3-836ce22eeb6d","title":"66: Fighting For Maternal Mental Health Care","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/66","content_text":"Tommy talks about body dysmorphia in young men and the long-term implications of postpartum depression, introduces listeners to Blessed James Miller, and answers listener questions about how to pray when we're feeling depressed, how to advocate for our mental health needs during pregnancy or the postpartum period, and what to do if your therapist isn't listening to you.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about body dysmorphia in young men and the long-term implications of postpartum depression, introduces listeners to Blessed James Miller, and answers listener questions about how to pray when we're feeling depressed, how to advocate for our mental health needs during pregnancy or the postpartum period, and what to do if your therapist isn't listening to you.

","summary":"Tommy talks about body dysmorphia in young men and the long-term implications of postpartum depression, introduces listeners to Blessed James Miller, and answers listener questions about how to pray when we're feeling depressed, how to advocate for our mental health needs during pregnancy or the postpartum period, and what to do if your therapist isn't listening to you.","date_published":"2020-12-12T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ec24d178-604b-440f-b0d3-836ce22eeb6d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26683476,"duration_in_seconds":1111}]},{"id":"f4225715-5562-4d65-b81b-500768fc0543","title":"65: This One's For The Gamers","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/65","content_text":"Tommy talks about a bishop who had been open about his mental health and a promising study about video games and mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Andrew Dũng-Lạc, and answers listener questions about the Church's role in the mental health world, how therapeutic modalities aren't a one-size-fits-all approach, and how to help teenagers who are anxious on Sunday mornings at Mass. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a bishop who had been open about his mental health and a promising study about video games and mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Andrew Dũng-Lạc, and answers listener questions about the Church's role in the mental health world, how therapeutic modalities aren't a one-size-fits-all approach, and how to help teenagers who are anxious on Sunday mornings at Mass.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a bishop who had been open about his mental health and a promising study about video games and mental health, introduces listeners to Saint Andrew Dũng-Lạc, and answers listener questions about the Church's role in the mental health world, how therapeutic modalities aren't a one-size-fits-all approach, and how to help teenagers who are anxious on Sunday mornings at Mass. ","date_published":"2020-12-05T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f4225715-5562-4d65-b81b-500768fc0543.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26398219,"duration_in_seconds":1099}]},{"id":"aa7c32d9-8b43-4904-a064-1a86f7a9eee7","title":"64: The Last Place of Unconditional Love","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/64","content_text":"Tommy talks about detoxing from election anxiety and a recent study suggesting magic mushrooms as treatment for depression, introduces listeners to Servant of God Catherine Doherty, and answers listener questions about seeking out a faith-based therapist, if prayer is always a compulsive act for those living with OCD, and the Catholic approach to responding to a child who identifies as non-binary. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about detoxing from election anxiety and a recent study suggesting magic mushrooms as treatment for depression, introduces listeners to Servant of God Catherine Doherty, and answers listener questions about seeking out a faith-based therapist, if prayer is always a compulsive act for those living with OCD, and the Catholic approach to responding to a child who identifies as non-binary.

","summary":"Tommy talks about detoxing from election anxiety and a recent study suggesting magic mushrooms as treatment for depression, introduces listeners to Servant of God Catherine Doherty, and answers listener questions about seeking out a faith-based therapist, if prayer is always a compulsive act for those living with OCD, and the Catholic approach to responding to a child who identifies as non-binary. ","date_published":"2020-11-28T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/aa7c32d9-8b43-4904-a064-1a86f7a9eee7.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30590559,"duration_in_seconds":1274}]},{"id":"0ddfec39-49da-413f-ba3c-365ba9d1063e","title":"63: Stop With The Doomscrolling Already! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/63","content_text":"Tommy talks about coping with Seasonal Affective Disorder and how to stop our obsessive habit of doomscrolling, shares a little bit about Saint Martin de Porres, and answers listener questions about how to quiet our inner critic while journaling, the importance of support for families in the aftermath of a mental health crisis, and how to support our kids and their emotional wellbeing when they go off to college. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about coping with Seasonal Affective Disorder and how to stop our obsessive habit of doomscrolling, shares a little bit about Saint Martin de Porres, and answers listener questions about how to quiet our inner critic while journaling, the importance of support for families in the aftermath of a mental health crisis, and how to support our kids and their emotional wellbeing when they go off to college.

","summary":"Tommy talks about coping with Seasonal Affective Disorder and how to stop our obsessive habit of doomscrolling, shares a little bit about Saint Martin de Porres, and answers listener questions about how to quiet our inner critic while journaling, the importance of support for families in the aftermath of a mental health crisis, and how to support our kids and their emotional wellbeing when they go off to college. ","date_published":"2020-11-21T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/0ddfec39-49da-413f-ba3c-365ba9d1063e.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29327277,"duration_in_seconds":1221}]},{"id":"34d84721-8982-483a-901f-e0220f982b29","title":"62: Show Them the Love of Christ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/62","content_text":"Tommy talks about the progress on a national mental health crisis line and the importance of physical exercise for good mental health. He shares a little bit about Saint Charles Borromeo and answers listener questions about how to show love to a child with gender dysphoria, how to navigate dating in today's culture, and what to do when a therapist asks a question that we struggle with.\n\nTranscript: https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/62","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the progress on a national mental health crisis line and the importance of physical exercise for good mental health. He shares a little bit about Saint Charles Borromeo and answers listener questions about how to show love to a child with gender dysphoria, how to navigate dating in today's culture, and what to do when a therapist asks a question that we struggle with.

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Transcript: https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/62

","summary":"Tommy talks about the progress on a national mental health crisis line and the importance of physical exercise for good mental health. He shares a little bit about Saint Charles Borromeo and answers listener questions about how to show love to a child with gender dysphoria, how to navigate dating in today's culture, and what to do when a therapist asks a question that we struggle with.","date_published":"2020-11-14T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/34d84721-8982-483a-901f-e0220f982b29.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24703604,"duration_in_seconds":1029}]},{"id":"1a76fcbe-5e28-4e93-bb58-44cb57576cbb","title":"61: Hypnosis! At the Therapist's Office?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/61","content_text":"Tommy talks about hypnotherapy and what to do about \"Depression Sundowners\", shares a little bit about Saint Louis Martin, and answers listener questions about internal family systems therapy, how to handle election-related anxiety, and what to say to a friend who has experienced a miscarriage. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about hypnotherapy and what to do about "Depression Sundowners", shares a little bit about Saint Louis Martin, and answers listener questions about internal family systems therapy, how to handle election-related anxiety, and what to say to a friend who has experienced a miscarriage.

","summary":"Tommy talks about hypnotherapy and what to do about \"Depression Sundowners\", shares a little bit about Saint Louis Martin, and answers listener questions about internal family systems therapy, how to handle election-related anxiety, and what to say to a friend who has experienced a miscarriage. ","date_published":"2020-11-07T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/1a76fcbe-5e28-4e93-bb58-44cb57576cbb.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30744786,"duration_in_seconds":1280}]},{"id":"2ede277e-aedf-4fec-bbc9-7bdb57fd0978","title":"60: Diet! Exercise!! and Still Anxious...","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/60","content_text":"Tommy talks about research into emotional support animals, explores a therapeutic modality known as \"reparenting,\" shares a little bit about Saint Aloysius Gonzaga, and answers listener questions about how someone on the spectrum can cope with stressful social situations, how to help someone who is in denial about their addiction, and how to encourage the importance of a healthy lifestyle without downplaying the importance of seeking professional help when trying to find mental and emotional wellness.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about research into emotional support animals, explores a therapeutic modality known as "reparenting," shares a little bit about Saint Aloysius Gonzaga, and answers listener questions about how someone on the spectrum can cope with stressful social situations, how to help someone who is in denial about their addiction, and how to encourage the importance of a healthy lifestyle without downplaying the importance of seeking professional help when trying to find mental and emotional wellness.

","summary":"Tommy talks about research into emotional support animals, explores a therapeutic modality known as \"reparenting,\" shares a little bit about Saint Aloysius Gonzaga, and answers listener questions about how someone on the spectrum can cope with stressful social situations, how to help someone who is in denial about their addiction, and how to encourage the importance of a healthy lifestyle without downplaying the importance of seeking professional help when trying to find mental and emotional wellness.","date_published":"2020-10-31T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/2ede277e-aedf-4fec-bbc9-7bdb57fd0978.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31770458,"duration_in_seconds":1323}]},{"id":"794237dc-26c2-4562-a17a-e00f510f86d3","title":"59: Praying with ADHD","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/59","content_text":"Tommy talks about a 2021 NYC Mayoral Candidate sharing his battle with depression, shares the impact of distance learning on those who need school-based mental health care, steps aside to allow Catherine Addington to introduce listeners to Saint Rafael Arnáiz, and answers listener questions about how to pray with ADHD, how to fight feelings of guilt over having mental health symptoms, and how to be our authentic selves in a parish community.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a 2021 NYC Mayoral Candidate sharing his battle with depression, shares the impact of distance learning on those who need school-based mental health care, steps aside to allow Catherine Addington to introduce listeners to Saint Rafael Arnáiz, and answers listener questions about how to pray with ADHD, how to fight feelings of guilt over having mental health symptoms, and how to be our authentic selves in a parish community.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a 2021 NYC Mayoral Candidate sharing his battle with depression, shares the impact of distance learning on those who need school-based mental health care, steps aside to allow Catherine Addington to introduce listeners to Saint Rafael Arnáiz, and answers listener questions about how to pray with ADHD, how to fight feelings of guilt over having mental health symptoms, and how to be our authentic selves in a parish community.","date_published":"2020-10-24T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/794237dc-26c2-4562-a17a-e00f510f86d3.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30792433,"duration_in_seconds":1282}]},{"id":"647ba256-07ea-48f9-b88f-d8742cf3f2d5","title":"58: A Healthy Relationship With Social Media ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/58","content_text":"Tommy talks about a recent report on the state of Black mental health in 2020 America and the process behind why someone might be placed on an involuntary psychiatric hold, shares some insights about Servant of God Dorothy Day, and answers listener questions about intrusive thoughts being \"good\" or \"bad\", how to stay healthy on social media, and the problem with Catholics recommending a priest over a therapist for one's mental health needs.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about a recent report on the state of Black mental health in 2020 America and the process behind why someone might be placed on an involuntary psychiatric hold, shares some insights about Servant of God Dorothy Day, and answers listener questions about intrusive thoughts being "good" or "bad", how to stay healthy on social media, and the problem with Catholics recommending a priest over a therapist for one's mental health needs.

","summary":"Tommy talks about a recent report on the state of Black mental health in 2020 America and the process behind why someone might be placed on an involuntary psychiatric hold, shares some insights about Servant of God Dorothy Day, and answers listener questions about intrusive thoughts being \"good\" or \"bad\", how to stay healthy on social media, and the problem with Catholics recommending a priest over a therapist for one's mental health needs.","date_published":"2020-10-17T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/647ba256-07ea-48f9-b88f-d8742cf3f2d5.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27613853,"duration_in_seconds":1150}]},{"id":"29979817-f241-4e82-b065-abf9abdc3418","title":"57: On Birth Order and Personality","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/57","content_text":"Tommy talks about an effort by a local police department to grow in mental health awareness and discusses the importance of Mental Health First Aid training, shares some insights about Saint Rose of Lima, and answers listener questions about the importance of friendship, how to experience and cope with extreme emotions in a healthy way, and if our birth order within our family impacts our personality throughout our lives.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about an effort by a local police department to grow in mental health awareness and discusses the importance of Mental Health First Aid training, shares some insights about Saint Rose of Lima, and answers listener questions about the importance of friendship, how to experience and cope with extreme emotions in a healthy way, and if our birth order within our family impacts our personality throughout our lives.

","summary":"Tommy talks about an effort by a local police department to grow in mental health awareness and discusses the importance of Mental Health First Aid training, shares some insights about Saint Rose of Lima, and answers listener questions about the importance of friendship, how to experience and cope with extreme emotions in a healthy way, and if our birth order within our family impacts our personality throughout our lives.","date_published":"2020-10-10T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/29979817-f241-4e82-b065-abf9abdc3418.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28473387,"duration_in_seconds":1186}]},{"id":"afd98d5f-4892-4404-8067-3a24270f669c","title":"56: Help! I'm Burned Out!!","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/56","content_text":"Tommy talks about the importance of maternal mental health services and a project that seeks to provide an alternative to calling 911 for a mental health crisis, shares some insights about Saint Teresa of Calcutta, and answers listener questions about Bipolar Disorder and the consecrated life, how to recognize and address burnout, and how to rebuild a relationship after a loved one attempts suicide.\n\nSee more episodes of SDP and other great podcasts at https://www.grexly.com/\nSupport Grexly at https://www.patreon.com/grexly","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the importance of maternal mental health services and a project that seeks to provide an alternative to calling 911 for a mental health crisis, shares some insights about Saint Teresa of Calcutta, and answers listener questions about Bipolar Disorder and the consecrated life, how to recognize and address burnout, and how to rebuild a relationship after a loved one attempts suicide.

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See more episodes of SDP and other great podcasts at https://www.grexly.com/
\nSupport Grexly at https://www.patreon.com/grexly

","summary":"Tommy talks about the importance of maternal mental health services and a project that seeks to provide an alternative to calling 911 for a mental health crisis, shares some insights about Saint Teresa of Calcutta, and answers listener questions about Bipolar Disorder and the consecrated life, how to recognize and address burnout, and how to rebuild a relationship after a loved one attempts suicide.","date_published":"2020-10-03T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/afd98d5f-4892-4404-8067-3a24270f669c.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31559179,"duration_in_seconds":1314}]},{"id":"88862349-0457-4078-84aa-4910ad71af91","title":"55: You Are The Expert On You ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/55","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to advocate for yourself when seeking care, shares some startling mental health statistics about LGBTQ youth, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsa Muttathupandathu, and answers listener questions about life after trauma, if it's wrong to avoid certain spiritual practices because of scrupulosity, and how to balance helping others while taking care of yourself.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to advocate for yourself when seeking care, shares some startling mental health statistics about LGBTQ youth, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsa Muttathupandathu, and answers listener questions about life after trauma, if it's wrong to avoid certain spiritual practices because of scrupulosity, and how to balance helping others while taking care of yourself.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to advocate for yourself when seeking care, shares some startling mental health statistics about LGBTQ youth, introduces listeners to Saint Alphonsa Muttathupandathu, and answers listener questions about life after trauma, if it's wrong to avoid certain spiritual practices because of scrupulosity, and how to balance helping others while taking care of yourself.","date_published":"2020-09-26T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/88862349-0457-4078-84aa-4910ad71af91.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28537961,"duration_in_seconds":1188}]},{"id":"2e8c9299-8715-4a3d-9da9-ca0a8dea864a","title":"54: Still Fighting Stigma","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/54","content_text":"Tommy discusses a Christian pastor's tweet about people not needing medication or therapy, talks about an Australian effort to fight for mental health justice, shares some thoughts on Saint Kateri Tekakwitha, and answers listener questions about spiritual abuse within parishes, how to work through feeling guilty for past sins, and why in the world the Gospel of Matthew uses the word \"lunatic.\" ","content_html":"

Tommy discusses a Christian pastor's tweet about people not needing medication or therapy, talks about an Australian effort to fight for mental health justice, shares some thoughts on Saint Kateri Tekakwitha, and answers listener questions about spiritual abuse within parishes, how to work through feeling guilty for past sins, and why in the world the Gospel of Matthew uses the word "lunatic."

","summary":"Tommy discusses a Christian pastor's tweet about people not needing medication or therapy, talks about an Australian effort to fight for mental health justice, shares some thoughts on Saint Kateri Tekakwitha, and answers listener questions about spiritual abuse within parishes, how to work through feeling guilty for past sins, and why in the world the Gospel of Matthew uses the word \"lunatic.\" ","date_published":"2020-09-19T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/2e8c9299-8715-4a3d-9da9-ca0a8dea864a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":32211196,"duration_in_seconds":1341}]},{"id":"914b9925-5372-45d5-a899-3a849cc7e2c7","title":"53: All or Nothing Thinking ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/53","content_text":"Tommy talks about the limits of confidentiality in therapy, discusses the process for how to get help once you realize you need it, introduces listeners to Saint Zélie Martin, and answers listener questions about all or nothing thinking, if the Church's teaching on marriage leads to co-dependent relationships, and how to work through emotions after scandal comes to your parish.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the limits of confidentiality in therapy, discusses the process for how to get help once you realize you need it, introduces listeners to Saint Zélie Martin, and answers listener questions about all or nothing thinking, if the Church's teaching on marriage leads to co-dependent relationships, and how to work through emotions after scandal comes to your parish.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the limits of confidentiality in therapy, discusses the process for how to get help once you realize you need it, introduces listeners to Saint Zélie Martin, and answers listener questions about all or nothing thinking, if the Church's teaching on marriage leads to co-dependent relationships, and how to work through emotions after scandal comes to your parish.","date_published":"2020-09-12T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/914b9925-5372-45d5-a899-3a849cc7e2c7.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":34243104,"duration_in_seconds":1426}]},{"id":"f4eb587c-4033-435c-b19e-f89267054bd9","title":"52: Religious Trauma and Our Relationship With God","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/52","content_text":"Tommy talks about how we can finally get a good night's sleep, discusses how the COVID pandemic has impacted those suffering with dementia, introduces listeners to Blessed Elizabeth Canori Mora, and answers listener questions about helping a loved one with body image issues, finding a relationship with God after an experience of religious trauma, and helping a loved one with mental illness be willing to seek the help they need.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how we can finally get a good night's sleep, discusses how the COVID pandemic has impacted those suffering with dementia, introduces listeners to Blessed Elizabeth Canori Mora, and answers listener questions about helping a loved one with body image issues, finding a relationship with God after an experience of religious trauma, and helping a loved one with mental illness be willing to seek the help they need.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how we can finally get a good night's sleep, discusses how the COVID pandemic has impacted those suffering with dementia, introduces listeners to Blessed Elizabeth Canori Mora, and answers listener questions about helping a loved one with body image issues, finding a relationship with God after an experience of religious trauma, and helping a loved one with mental illness be willing to seek the help they need.","date_published":"2020-09-05T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f4eb587c-4033-435c-b19e-f89267054bd9.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25165658,"duration_in_seconds":1048}]},{"id":"5f57a1ef-4718-4def-b7ef-4d2e70cc6d5a","title":"51: Does Catholicism Have Room For My Flaws?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/51","content_text":"Tommy talks about COVID-related changes to sleep/exercise/smoking/alcohol use, explores what to do about bullying, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartolo Longo, and answers listener questions about wanting to find room in Catholic spirituality for our emotions, flaws, and weaknesses; how to handle the fallout from an episode of Borderline Personality Disorder; and how to find a way forward as an adult when our parents divorce.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about COVID-related changes to sleep/exercise/smoking/alcohol use, explores what to do about bullying, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartolo Longo, and answers listener questions about wanting to find room in Catholic spirituality for our emotions, flaws, and weaknesses; how to handle the fallout from an episode of Borderline Personality Disorder; and how to find a way forward as an adult when our parents divorce.

","summary":"Tommy talks about COVID-related changes to sleep/exercise/smoking/alcohol use, explores what to do about bullying, introduces listeners to Blessed Bartolo Longo, and answers listener questions about wanting to find room in Catholic spirituality for our emotions, flaws, and weaknesses; how to handle the fallout from an episode of Borderline Personality Disorder; and how to find a way forward as an adult when our parents divorce.","date_published":"2020-08-29T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5f57a1ef-4718-4def-b7ef-4d2e70cc6d5a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31737857,"duration_in_seconds":1322}]},{"id":"82ae82af-dd52-4687-b7a8-bf0ce88f34d1","title":"50: Am I Weak For Taking Medication?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/50","content_text":"Tommy talks about Colorado's COVID-related mental health crisis data and a new initiative started by rapper G-Herbo, introduces listeners to Blessed Clara Isabella Fornari, and answers listener questions about pornography addiction, if taking medication for mental health symptoms is a sign of weakness, and how emotions during pregnancy impact our children moving forward.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Colorado's COVID-related mental health crisis data and a new initiative started by rapper G-Herbo, introduces listeners to Blessed Clara Isabella Fornari, and answers listener questions about pornography addiction, if taking medication for mental health symptoms is a sign of weakness, and how emotions during pregnancy impact our children moving forward.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Colorado's COVID-related mental health crisis data and a new initiative started by rapper G-Herbo, introduces listeners to Blessed Clara Isabella Fornari, and answers listener questions about pornography addiction, if taking medication for mental health symptoms is a sign of weakness, and how emotions during pregnancy impact our children moving forward.","date_published":"2020-08-22T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/82ae82af-dd52-4687-b7a8-bf0ce88f34d1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24529942,"duration_in_seconds":1021}]},{"id":"3f1e78a6-c7b4-48f5-955e-354aecb3db13","title":"49: Kim Kardashian and Saint Vincent de Paul","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/49","content_text":"Tommy talks about Kim Kardashian's recent comments about mental illness, discusses a study on breathing techniques from Yale, shares a story about Saint Vincent de Paul, and answers listener questions about orthorexia, navigating a relationship while experiencing Harm OCD, and how to heal after experiencing abuse from a helping professional.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Kim Kardashian's recent comments about mental illness, discusses a study on breathing techniques from Yale, shares a story about Saint Vincent de Paul, and answers listener questions about orthorexia, navigating a relationship while experiencing Harm OCD, and how to heal after experiencing abuse from a helping professional.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Kim Kardashian's recent comments about mental illness, discusses a study on breathing techniques from Yale, shares a story about Saint Vincent de Paul, and answers listener questions about orthorexia, navigating a relationship while experiencing Harm OCD, and how to heal after experiencing abuse from a helping professional.","date_published":"2020-08-15T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/3f1e78a6-c7b4-48f5-955e-354aecb3db13.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27104152,"duration_in_seconds":1129}]},{"id":"4fd500d8-77cc-45bc-bbbc-18e65ea4ee0b","title":"48: Just Do Your Dishes! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/48","content_text":"Tommy talks about how making your bed won't fix your mental illness and discusses how to cope with dissociation, introduces listeners to Blessed Laura Vicuña, and answers listener questions about to help a loved one be open to mental health treatment, what a manic episode looks like, and how to navigate a friend sharing news about a history of abuse. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how making your bed won't fix your mental illness and discusses how to cope with dissociation, introduces listeners to Blessed Laura Vicuña, and answers listener questions about to help a loved one be open to mental health treatment, what a manic episode looks like, and how to navigate a friend sharing news about a history of abuse.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how making your bed won't fix your mental illness and discusses how to cope with dissociation, introduces listeners to Blessed Laura Vicuña, and answers listener questions about to help a loved one be open to mental health treatment, what a manic episode looks like, and how to navigate a friend sharing news about a history of abuse. ","date_published":"2020-08-08T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/4fd500d8-77cc-45bc-bbbc-18e65ea4ee0b.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28431382,"duration_in_seconds":1184}]},{"id":"c96c668b-9c91-48bc-acfd-d26df84529aa","title":"47: You Are Not Your Mental Illness","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/47","content_text":"Tommy talks about the burning of a Catholic parish by a man with mental illness and discusses the need for pro-mental health protections in the current conversations about policing. He also shares a bit about Blessed Miguel Pro and answers listener questions about how to handle feelings of guilt about our mental-health induced behaviors, the benefits of emotional support animals, and how to help a child with ADHD make it through the Mass.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the burning of a Catholic parish by a man with mental illness and discusses the need for pro-mental health protections in the current conversations about policing. He also shares a bit about Blessed Miguel Pro and answers listener questions about how to handle feelings of guilt about our mental-health induced behaviors, the benefits of emotional support animals, and how to help a child with ADHD make it through the Mass.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the burning of a Catholic parish by a man with mental illness and discusses the need for pro-mental health protections in the current conversations about policing. He also shares a bit about Blessed Miguel Pro and answers listener questions about how to handle feelings of guilt about our mental-health induced behaviors, the benefits of emotional support animals, and how to help a child with ADHD make it through the Mass.","date_published":"2020-08-01T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/c96c668b-9c91-48bc-acfd-d26df84529aa.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26408250,"duration_in_seconds":1100}]},{"id":"abd769f2-e249-4662-9834-d3e8cc9e4243","title":"46: I'm an Imposter! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/46","content_text":"Tommy talks about overcoming imposter syndrome and managing anxiety when making big decisions, introduces listeners to Venerable Augustus Tolton, and answers listener questions about showing mercy to someone who traumatized us, the connection between our faith and our recovery from substance dependence, and whether God wants us to suffer without relief and just offer it up.\n\nVisit www.grexly.com to listen to more episodes of Saint Dymphna's Playbook and discover other great podcasts!","content_html":"

Tommy talks about overcoming imposter syndrome and managing anxiety when making big decisions, introduces listeners to Venerable Augustus Tolton, and answers listener questions about showing mercy to someone who traumatized us, the connection between our faith and our recovery from substance dependence, and whether God wants us to suffer without relief and just offer it up.

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Visit www.grexly.com to listen to more episodes of Saint Dymphna's Playbook and discover other great podcasts!

","summary":"Tommy talks about overcoming imposter syndrome and managing anxiety when making big decisions, introduces listeners to Venerable Augustus Tolton, and answers listener questions about showing mercy to someone who traumatized us, the connection between our faith and our recovery from substance dependence, and whether God wants us to suffer without relief and just offer it up.","date_published":"2020-07-25T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/abd769f2-e249-4662-9834-d3e8cc9e4243.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26720466,"duration_in_seconds":1113}]},{"id":"fe574c7c-d8b0-41c0-b4d4-7b0e4bf55d3b","title":"45: God Does Not Call Us To Be Doormats","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/45","content_text":"Tommy talks about attachment styles, discusses deep breathing to relieve anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth of Portugal, and answers listener questions about feeling guilty over being estranged from a sibling, psychosis vs. demonic possession, and how to cope with something a friend said that left us feeling rattled. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about attachment styles, discusses deep breathing to relieve anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth of Portugal, and answers listener questions about feeling guilty over being estranged from a sibling, psychosis vs. demonic possession, and how to cope with something a friend said that left us feeling rattled.

","summary":"Tommy talks about attachment styles, discusses deep breathing to relieve anxiety, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth of Portugal, and answers listener questions about feeling guilty over being estranged from a sibling, psychosis vs. demonic possession, and how to cope with something a friend said that left us feeling rattled. ","date_published":"2020-07-18T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/fe574c7c-d8b0-41c0-b4d4-7b0e4bf55d3b.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":22645991,"duration_in_seconds":943}]},{"id":"8ff69b71-6e37-4750-8c93-86675a7bf9c9","title":"44: Is Self-Harm a Sin? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/44","content_text":"Tommy talks about personality tests and how the suffering of others impacts his life as a therapist, introduces listeners to Servant of God Elizabeth Clarisse Lange, and answers listener questions about self-harm, how to stop second-guessing ourselves, and if there's anything special about a Catholic therapist. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about personality tests and how the suffering of others impacts his life as a therapist, introduces listeners to Servant of God Elizabeth Clarisse Lange, and answers listener questions about self-harm, how to stop second-guessing ourselves, and if there's anything special about a Catholic therapist.

","summary":"Tommy talks about personality tests and how the suffering of others impacts his life as a therapist, introduces listeners to Servant of God Elizabeth Clarisse Lange, and answers listener questions about self-harm, how to stop second-guessing ourselves, and if there's anything special about a Catholic therapist. ","date_published":"2020-07-11T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/8ff69b71-6e37-4750-8c93-86675a7bf9c9.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24695453,"duration_in_seconds":1028}]},{"id":"122197b5-c127-4f2e-a9c8-fdf113b2c4a1","title":"43: Maybe I'll Never Go Back Outside!","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/43","content_text":"Tommy talks about journaling for mental health, discusses how to manage a 9-year-old's anger outbursts, introduces listeners to Blessed Concepción Cabrera de Armida, and answers listener questions about feeling anxious about life after the lockdowns, weather-related anxiety, and fears about suffering the same mental health and neurological conditions as our parents. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about journaling for mental health, discusses how to manage a 9-year-old's anger outbursts, introduces listeners to Blessed Concepción Cabrera de Armida, and answers listener questions about feeling anxious about life after the lockdowns, weather-related anxiety, and fears about suffering the same mental health and neurological conditions as our parents.

","summary":"Tommy talks about journaling for mental health, discusses how to manage a 9-year-old's anger outbursts, introduces listeners to Blessed Concepción Cabrera de Armida, and answers listener questions about feeling anxious about life after the lockdowns, weather-related anxiety, and fears about suffering the same mental health and neurological conditions as our parents. ","date_published":"2020-07-04T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/122197b5-c127-4f2e-a9c8-fdf113b2c4a1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25919238,"duration_in_seconds":1079}]},{"id":"572ff7ef-bf21-41d2-b266-284e2bb4b952","title":"42: Your Bad Choices Are Hurting Me! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/42","content_text":"Tommy talks about how depression and a religious vocation can co-exist, discusses steps to take when we need therapy but can't get to a therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Maturinus, and answers listener questions about how to handle a conversation with a non-Catholic therapist, how to manage a relationship with an estranged family member, and what to do about irrational anxiety and negative thoughts.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how depression and a religious vocation can co-exist, discusses steps to take when we need therapy but can't get to a therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Maturinus, and answers listener questions about how to handle a conversation with a non-Catholic therapist, how to manage a relationship with an estranged family member, and what to do about irrational anxiety and negative thoughts.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how depression and a religious vocation can co-exist, discusses steps to take when we need therapy but can't get to a therapist, introduces listeners to Saint Maturinus, and answers listener questions about how to handle a conversation with a non-Catholic therapist, how to manage a relationship with an estranged family member, and what to do about irrational anxiety and negative thoughts.","date_published":"2020-06-27T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/572ff7ef-bf21-41d2-b266-284e2bb4b952.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24260358,"duration_in_seconds":1010}]},{"id":"d6158236-fccc-4bc0-9c7f-7f5a41497afb","title":"41: Does Everything Happen For A Reason?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/41","content_text":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to pray when we're depressed, explores secular guided meditation, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Cortona, and answers listener questions about eating disorder relapse prevention, if everything happens for a reason, and the therapeutic approach known as Internal Family Systems.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about why it's so hard to pray when we're depressed, explores secular guided meditation, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Cortona, and answers listener questions about eating disorder relapse prevention, if everything happens for a reason, and the therapeutic approach known as Internal Family Systems.

","summary":"Tommy talks about why it's so hard to pray when we're depressed, explores secular guided meditation, introduces listeners to Saint Margaret of Cortona, and answers listener questions about eating disorder relapse prevention, if everything happens for a reason, and the therapeutic approach known as Internal Family Systems.","date_published":"2020-06-20T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/d6158236-fccc-4bc0-9c7f-7f5a41497afb.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":23580129,"duration_in_seconds":982}]},{"id":"ba1b1b75-d011-4bb5-bdf6-c599f6a279e1","title":"40: Being Mindful About Mindfulness","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/40","content_text":"Tommy talks about the practice of mindfulness and how to approach a teen with an eating disorder, introduces listeners to Saint Rita of Cascia, and answers listener questions about a sibling coming out as transgender, what to do when prayer is emotionally triggering, and the issues with Maslow's famous hierarchy of needs. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the practice of mindfulness and how to approach a teen with an eating disorder, introduces listeners to Saint Rita of Cascia, and answers listener questions about a sibling coming out as transgender, what to do when prayer is emotionally triggering, and the issues with Maslow's famous hierarchy of needs.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the practice of mindfulness and how to approach a teen with an eating disorder, introduces listeners to Saint Rita of Cascia, and answers listener questions about a sibling coming out as transgender, what to do when prayer is emotionally triggering, and the issues with Maslow's famous hierarchy of needs. ","date_published":"2020-05-16T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ba1b1b75-d011-4bb5-bdf6-c599f6a279e1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25827705,"duration_in_seconds":1075}]},{"id":"72e894ea-e360-4ce3-890d-24c0d836ca9d","title":"39: Questionable Pretzels","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/39","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to respond when we're told we've triggered someone and discusses the need for better mental health services in perinatal healthcare, introduces listeners to Servant of God Chiara Corbella Petrillo, and answers listener questions about how to be a better communicator, how to start setting up a routine, and the fine line between mental illness and spiritual attack. \n\nSt. Dymphna's Playbook on Grexly: https://www.grexly.com/stdymphnasplaybook\nSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/grexly","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to respond when we're told we've triggered someone and discusses the need for better mental health services in perinatal healthcare, introduces listeners to Servant of God Chiara Corbella Petrillo, and answers listener questions about how to be a better communicator, how to start setting up a routine, and the fine line between mental illness and spiritual attack.

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St. Dymphna's Playbook on Grexly: https://www.grexly.com/stdymphnasplaybook
\nSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/grexly

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to respond when we're told we've triggered someone and discusses the need for better mental health services in perinatal healthcare, introduces listeners to Servant of God Chiara Corbella Petrillo, and answers listener questions about how to be a better communicator, how to start setting up a routine, and the fine line between mental illness and spiritual attack. ","date_published":"2020-05-09T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/72e894ea-e360-4ce3-890d-24c0d836ca9d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25363770,"duration_in_seconds":1056}]},{"id":"0471abc1-e5fe-471f-946b-265d6d9eaece","title":"38: That Work/Life Balance","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/38","content_text":"Tommy talks about the problems with working from home and explores Selena Gomez sharing her diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder, introduces listeners to Blessed Chiara Badano, and answers listener questions about how to navigate fasting with an eating disorder, if the phrase \"the new normal\" is helpful or not, and how to find peace as a family when one parent has a manic break. \n\nSt. Dymphna's Playbook on Grexly: https://www.grexly.com/stdymphnasplaybook\nSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/grexly","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the problems with working from home and explores Selena Gomez sharing her diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder, introduces listeners to Blessed Chiara Badano, and answers listener questions about how to navigate fasting with an eating disorder, if the phrase "the new normal" is helpful or not, and how to find peace as a family when one parent has a manic break.

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St. Dymphna's Playbook on Grexly: https://www.grexly.com/stdymphnasplaybook
\nSupport us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/grexly

","summary":"Tommy talks about the problems with working from home and explores Selena Gomez sharing her diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder, introduces listeners to Blessed Chiara Badano, and answers listener questions about how to navigate fasting with an eating disorder, if the phrase \"the new normal\" is helpful or not, and how to find peace as a family when one parent has a manic break. ","date_published":"2020-05-02T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/0471abc1-e5fe-471f-946b-265d6d9eaece.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":21894291,"duration_in_seconds":912}]},{"id":"03972af2-ffdc-4e4c-a684-1c16df03b8f6","title":"37: Let's Talk About Weed!","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/37","content_text":"Tommy talks about the problems with using Cannabis and discusses the need to stop using mental health terms as pejoratives, introduces listeners to Blessed Charles de Foucauld, and answers listener questions about what to do when you need therapy but can't start yet, the difference between in-person therapy and telehealth, and what's so special about Saint Dymphna.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the problems with using Cannabis and discusses the need to stop using mental health terms as pejoratives, introduces listeners to Blessed Charles de Foucauld, and answers listener questions about what to do when you need therapy but can't start yet, the difference between in-person therapy and telehealth, and what's so special about Saint Dymphna.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the problems with using Cannabis and discusses the need to stop using mental health terms as pejoratives, introduces listeners to Blessed Charles de Foucauld, and answers listener questions about what to do when you need therapy but can't start yet, the difference between in-person therapy and telehealth, and what's so special about Saint Dymphna.","date_published":"2020-04-25T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/03972af2-ffdc-4e4c-a684-1c16df03b8f6.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":24615205,"duration_in_seconds":1025}]},{"id":"b97776f1-fad1-412d-8ea9-49b0bd119280","title":"36: The Emotional Fallout of Social Distancing","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/36","content_text":"Tommy talks about how social distancing impacts our emotional health and discusses the idea of a \"higher power\" in substance use treatment, welcomes Sister Anne Flanagan to introduce listeners to Blessed James Alberione, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the anniversary of a friend's death from suicide, how to cope with anger toward family members, and how to figure out how a traumatic event has changed us.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how social distancing impacts our emotional health and discusses the idea of a "higher power" in substance use treatment, welcomes Sister Anne Flanagan to introduce listeners to Blessed James Alberione, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the anniversary of a friend's death from suicide, how to cope with anger toward family members, and how to figure out how a traumatic event has changed us.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how social distancing impacts our emotional health and discusses the idea of a \"higher power\" in substance use treatment, welcomes Sister Anne Flanagan to introduce listeners to Blessed James Alberione, and answers listener questions about how to prepare for the anniversary of a friend's death from suicide, how to cope with anger toward family members, and how to figure out how a traumatic event has changed us.","date_published":"2020-04-18T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/b97776f1-fad1-412d-8ea9-49b0bd119280.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25185720,"duration_in_seconds":1049}]},{"id":"8c6e40e8-e539-40ff-b7a1-405eb9127e54","title":"35: Any Lent You Can Do, I Can Lent Better! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/35","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to set healthy Lenten penances and how to cope with news that a holy hero may not have been so holy, introduces listeners to Saint Josephine Bakhita, and answers listener questions about why those suffering from addiction make bad choices, how to improve a relationship in the midst of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and tips for coping with Church-triggered panic attacks.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to set healthy Lenten penances and how to cope with news that a holy hero may not have been so holy, introduces listeners to Saint Josephine Bakhita, and answers listener questions about why those suffering from addiction make bad choices, how to improve a relationship in the midst of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and tips for coping with Church-triggered panic attacks.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to set healthy Lenten penances and how to cope with news that a holy hero may not have been so holy, introduces listeners to Saint Josephine Bakhita, and answers listener questions about why those suffering from addiction make bad choices, how to improve a relationship in the midst of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and tips for coping with Church-triggered panic attacks.","date_published":"2020-04-11T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/8c6e40e8-e539-40ff-b7a1-405eb9127e54.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":21654800,"duration_in_seconds":902}]},{"id":"e7ff5d02-c304-40c5-ac34-ccc1dcbaa971","title":"34: Anxiety! In The Quarantine ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/34","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to cope with anxiety during the COVID-19 pandemic and how to best work with individuals who identify as transgender, introduces listeners to Saint Damien of Molokai, and answers listener questions about what to do when a child comes out as bisexual, how to help a family member with Bipolar Disorder who doesn't want help, and how to cope with anxiety related to the death of loved ones. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to cope with anxiety during the COVID-19 pandemic and how to best work with individuals who identify as transgender, introduces listeners to Saint Damien of Molokai, and answers listener questions about what to do when a child comes out as bisexual, how to help a family member with Bipolar Disorder who doesn't want help, and how to cope with anxiety related to the death of loved ones.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to cope with anxiety during the COVID-19 pandemic and how to best work with individuals who identify as transgender, introduces listeners to Saint Damien of Molokai, and answers listener questions about what to do when a child comes out as bisexual, how to help a family member with Bipolar Disorder who doesn't want help, and how to cope with anxiety related to the death of loved ones. ","date_published":"2020-04-04T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/e7ff5d02-c304-40c5-ac34-ccc1dcbaa971.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25659685,"duration_in_seconds":1068}]},{"id":"64003996-c776-4882-936f-4a22117aaff2","title":"33: Compassion or Co-Dependence?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/33","content_text":"Tommy talks about extreme penance vs. self-harm and discusses why in the world we might develop feelings for our therapist, shares a bit about Saint Joan of Arc, and answers listener questions about when compassion becomes co-dependence, what to think when a mental health diagnosis closes off the priesthood, and how to help a family member who stopped going to Mass because of anxiety. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about extreme penance vs. self-harm and discusses why in the world we might develop feelings for our therapist, shares a bit about Saint Joan of Arc, and answers listener questions about when compassion becomes co-dependence, what to think when a mental health diagnosis closes off the priesthood, and how to help a family member who stopped going to Mass because of anxiety.

","summary":"Tommy talks about extreme penance vs. self-harm and discusses why in the world we might develop feelings for our therapist, shares a bit about Saint Joan of Arc, and answers listener questions about when compassion becomes co-dependence, what to think when a mental health diagnosis closes off the priesthood, and how to help a family member who stopped going to Mass because of anxiety. ","date_published":"2020-03-28T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/64003996-c776-4882-936f-4a22117aaff2.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":27196312,"duration_in_seconds":1133}]},{"id":"4f56acf4-8f2d-45be-a710-dc913a7c13b1","title":"32: A Box of Bones Marked \"Expedite\"","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/32","content_text":"Tommy talks about battling loneliness and the first steps to take when you want to get help, introduces listeners to Saint Expeditus, and answers listener questions about anger when working through childhood experiences, how to cope with anxiety at school, and how to approach intrusive images that confront us without our consent.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about battling loneliness and the first steps to take when you want to get help, introduces listeners to Saint Expeditus, and answers listener questions about anger when working through childhood experiences, how to cope with anxiety at school, and how to approach intrusive images that confront us without our consent.

","summary":"Tommy talks about battling loneliness and the first steps to take when you want to get help, introduces listeners to Saint Expeditus, and answers listener questions about anger when working through childhood experiences, how to cope with anxiety at school, and how to approach intrusive images that confront us without our consent.","date_published":"2020-03-21T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/4f56acf4-8f2d-45be-a710-dc913a7c13b1.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":23652227,"duration_in_seconds":985}]},{"id":"92fe59ce-ee60-4389-bc9a-11501d06c2fd","title":"31: God Loves Me, But I Don't","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/31","content_text":"Tommy talks about therapists wearing their ashes on Ash Wednesday and the need to love ourselves if we want to experience the love of God, shares a little about Saint Edith Stein, and answers listener questions about overcoming shame, setting healthy boundaries in a relationship with our parents, and the new therapeutic modality known as Lifespan Integration.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about therapists wearing their ashes on Ash Wednesday and the need to love ourselves if we want to experience the love of God, shares a little about Saint Edith Stein, and answers listener questions about overcoming shame, setting healthy boundaries in a relationship with our parents, and the new therapeutic modality known as Lifespan Integration.

","summary":"Tommy talks about therapists wearing their ashes on Ash Wednesday and the need to love ourselves if we want to experience the love of God, shares a little about Saint Edith Stein, and answers listener questions about overcoming shame, setting healthy boundaries in a relationship with our parents, and the new therapeutic modality known as Lifespan Integration.","date_published":"2020-03-14T09:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/92fe59ce-ee60-4389-bc9a-11501d06c2fd.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":27289726,"duration_in_seconds":1136}]},{"id":"3a572b3b-ab10-4a45-a718-50ec85a94ac2","title":"30: Are My Flashbacks Real?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/30","content_text":"Tommy talks about the the recent suicide of a Kansas City priest and the importance of not over-pathologizing ourselves, shares a little about Saint John Vianney, and answers listener questions about flashbacks, grieving the death of a parent, and how to respond to Catholics who think using mental health medication is just \"drugging our bodies.\"","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the the recent suicide of a Kansas City priest and the importance of not over-pathologizing ourselves, shares a little about Saint John Vianney, and answers listener questions about flashbacks, grieving the death of a parent, and how to respond to Catholics who think using mental health medication is just "drugging our bodies."

","summary":"Tommy talks about the the recent suicide of a Kansas City priest and the importance of not over-pathologizing ourselves, shares a little about Saint John Vianney, and answers listener questions about flashbacks, grieving the death of a parent, and how to respond to Catholics who think using mental health medication is just \"drugging our bodies.\"","date_published":"2020-03-07T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/3a572b3b-ab10-4a45-a718-50ec85a94ac2.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":26541161,"duration_in_seconds":1105}]},{"id":"faad04ff-2f16-4497-8ffe-1ecefd1faa14","title":"29: The Re-Birthing Weekend! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/29","content_text":"Tommy talks about the importance of finding a modality of therapy that connects with you and discusses the wide range of emotions that can come after a miscarriage, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, and answers listener questions about responding to DMs about mortal sin, the idea of hell making it hard to feel God's love and mercy, and how to prepare for a happy birth after the experience of a medical trauma. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the importance of finding a modality of therapy that connects with you and discusses the wide range of emotions that can come after a miscarriage, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, and answers listener questions about responding to DMs about mortal sin, the idea of hell making it hard to feel God's love and mercy, and how to prepare for a happy birth after the experience of a medical trauma.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the importance of finding a modality of therapy that connects with you and discusses the wide range of emotions that can come after a miscarriage, introduces listeners to Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, and answers listener questions about responding to DMs about mortal sin, the idea of hell making it hard to feel God's love and mercy, and how to prepare for a happy birth after the experience of a medical trauma. ","date_published":"2020-02-29T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/faad04ff-2f16-4497-8ffe-1ecefd1faa14.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":27015127,"duration_in_seconds":1125}]},{"id":"d3d72819-5448-4f32-922a-4b32bda1e4e9","title":"28: This Too Shall Pass","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/28","content_text":"Tommy talks about supporting a teen with mental illness and how spirituality connects with counseling, introduces listeners to Saint Noel Chabanel, and answers listener questions about grieving the loss of someone we don't remember, navigating the emotions of studying abroad, and how to prepare our mental health for pregnancy and having children.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about supporting a teen with mental illness and how spirituality connects with counseling, introduces listeners to Saint Noel Chabanel, and answers listener questions about grieving the loss of someone we don't remember, navigating the emotions of studying abroad, and how to prepare our mental health for pregnancy and having children.

","summary":"Tommy talks about supporting a teen with mental illness and how spirituality connects with counseling, introduces listeners to Saint Noel Chabanel, and answers listener questions about grieving the loss of someone we don't remember, navigating the emotions of studying abroad, and how to prepare our mental health for pregnancy and having children.","date_published":"2020-02-22T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/d3d72819-5448-4f32-922a-4b32bda1e4e9.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25684763,"duration_in_seconds":1070}]},{"id":"d95d63ae-021e-415c-9a25-04554533ba6a","title":"27: At-Home Date Nights ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/27","content_text":"Tommy talks about the importance of focusing on your relationship as a married couple and how to address suicide with young children, shares a little bit about Saint Ignatius of Loyola, and answers listener questions about recovering from childhood abuse, navigating relationships with difficult family members, and supporting a loved one experiencing early cognitive difficulties. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the importance of focusing on your relationship as a married couple and how to address suicide with young children, shares a little bit about Saint Ignatius of Loyola, and answers listener questions about recovering from childhood abuse, navigating relationships with difficult family members, and supporting a loved one experiencing early cognitive difficulties.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the importance of focusing on your relationship as a married couple and how to address suicide with young children, shares a little bit about Saint Ignatius of Loyola, and answers listener questions about recovering from childhood abuse, navigating relationships with difficult family members, and supporting a loved one experiencing early cognitive difficulties. ","date_published":"2020-02-15T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/d95d63ae-021e-415c-9a25-04554533ba6a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":29179947,"duration_in_seconds":1215}]},{"id":"f8a229fe-6dab-4a8b-bfd3-6eb8a51a4096","title":"26: The Most Depressing Day of the Year","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/26","content_text":"Tommy talks about the the idea of Blue Monday and the heartbreak of Christian pastors being fired over their mental health, introduces everyone to Saint Flora, and answers listener questions about how to stop dwelling on the sins of others, the DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy) idea that there are no absolute truths, and how to help a loved one with military-related PTSD.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the the idea of Blue Monday and the heartbreak of Christian pastors being fired over their mental health, introduces everyone to Saint Flora, and answers listener questions about how to stop dwelling on the sins of others, the DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy) idea that there are no absolute truths, and how to help a loved one with military-related PTSD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the the idea of Blue Monday and the heartbreak of Christian pastors being fired over their mental health, introduces everyone to Saint Flora, and answers listener questions about how to stop dwelling on the sins of others, the DBT (Dialectical behavior therapy) idea that there are no absolute truths, and how to help a loved one with military-related PTSD.","date_published":"2020-02-08T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f8a229fe-6dab-4a8b-bfd3-6eb8a51a4096.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":24546242,"duration_in_seconds":1022}]},{"id":"142c574f-77aa-4b25-8b0d-e66bed517afb","title":"25: Just Pray Harder! ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/25","content_text":"Tommy addresses the lie that praying more will always lead to healing and talks about how to navigate relationships with family members who are hostile to our faith, shares a little bit about Saint Augustine, and answers listener questions about religious orders rejecting people because of their mental health, when to speak up in a relationship, and how to help our loved ones suffering from addiction while also taking care of ourselves.\n\nVisit www.grexly.com to listen to more episodes of Saint Dymphna's Playbook and discover other great podcasts!","content_html":"

Tommy addresses the lie that praying more will always lead to healing and talks about how to navigate relationships with family members who are hostile to our faith, shares a little bit about Saint Augustine, and answers listener questions about religious orders rejecting people because of their mental health, when to speak up in a relationship, and how to help our loved ones suffering from addiction while also taking care of ourselves.

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Visit www.grexly.com to listen to more episodes of Saint Dymphna's Playbook and discover other great podcasts!

","summary":"Tommy addresses the lie that praying more will always lead to healing and talks about how to navigate relationships with family members who are hostile to our faith, shares a little bit about Saint Augustine, and answers listener questions about religious orders rejecting people because of their mental health, when to speak up in a relationship, and how to help our loved ones suffering from addiction while also taking care of ourselves.","date_published":"2020-02-01T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/142c574f-77aa-4b25-8b0d-e66bed517afb.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":29182454,"duration_in_seconds":1215}]},{"id":"f5198c07-6382-4670-8c68-1e3ca64d721e","title":"24: I Really, Really Don't Want To Take Meds","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/24","content_text":"Tommy talks about the stigma around taking mental health medications and explores the heartbreak of Saint Therese, shares a little about Saint Aelred of Rievaulx, and answers listener questions about navigating manipulative relationships, the therapy modality known as EMDR, and depression leading to missing Mass.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the stigma around taking mental health medications and explores the heartbreak of Saint Therese, shares a little about Saint Aelred of Rievaulx, and answers listener questions about navigating manipulative relationships, the therapy modality known as EMDR, and depression leading to missing Mass.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the stigma around taking mental health medications and explores the heartbreak of Saint Therese, shares a little about Saint Aelred of Rievaulx, and answers listener questions about navigating manipulative relationships, the therapy modality known as EMDR, and depression leading to missing Mass.","date_published":"2020-01-25T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f5198c07-6382-4670-8c68-1e3ca64d721e.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":26112962,"duration_in_seconds":1087}]},{"id":"cb77a00f-84d3-4d88-aa52-563fbb373b0d","title":"Episode 23: Taking a Mental Health Day","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/23","content_text":"Tommy talks about children taking a mental health day off of school and a recent study on contraception and depression, shares a little about Saint Joseph of Cupertino, and answers listener questions about self-disclosure in job interviews, navigating family relationships, and how to battle perfectionism.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about children taking a mental health day off of school and a recent study on contraception and depression, shares a little about Saint Joseph of Cupertino, and answers listener questions about self-disclosure in job interviews, navigating family relationships, and how to battle perfectionism.

","summary":"Tommy talks about children taking a mental health day off of school and a recent study on contraception and depression, shares a little about Saint Joseph of Cupertino, and answers listener questions about self-disclosure in job interviews, navigating family relationships, and how to battle perfectionism.","date_published":"2020-01-18T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/cb77a00f-84d3-4d88-aa52-563fbb373b0d.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25993844,"duration_in_seconds":1082}]},{"id":"5de6f9a8-c6d5-4007-8bc9-683b3845deeb","title":"Episode 22: Let's Fight Some Thoughts!","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/22","content_text":"Tommy talks about the dangers of self-care advice and the potential Medicaid IMD Exclusion repeal plans, shares a little about Saint Oscar Romero, and answers listener questions about battling perverted thoughts, promoting healing between siblings, and the importance of replacing a bad coping skill with a good one.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the dangers of self-care advice and the potential Medicaid IMD Exclusion repeal plans, shares a little about Saint Oscar Romero, and answers listener questions about battling perverted thoughts, promoting healing between siblings, and the importance of replacing a bad coping skill with a good one.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the dangers of self-care advice and the potential Medicaid IMD Exclusion repeal plans, shares a little about Saint Oscar Romero, and answers listener questions about battling perverted thoughts, promoting healing between siblings, and the importance of replacing a bad coping skill with a good one.","date_published":"2020-01-11T09:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5de6f9a8-c6d5-4007-8bc9-683b3845deeb.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":25399506,"duration_in_seconds":1058}]},{"id":"59e0fb98-dda3-473e-a8b8-521b38a8cbbd","title":"21: Walking on Eggshells","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/21","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to become a therapist and the potential anxiety associated with memento mori, shares a little bit about Saint Teresa of Avila, and answers listener questions about mindfulness techniques, families who stigmatize therapy, and how to be in a supportive relationship with someone who has experienced suicidal thoughts. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to become a therapist and the potential anxiety associated with memento mori, shares a little bit about Saint Teresa of Avila, and answers listener questions about mindfulness techniques, families who stigmatize therapy, and how to be in a supportive relationship with someone who has experienced suicidal thoughts.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to become a therapist and the potential anxiety associated with memento mori, shares a little bit about Saint Teresa of Avila, and answers listener questions about mindfulness techniques, families who stigmatize therapy, and how to be in a supportive relationship with someone who has experienced suicidal thoughts. ","date_published":"2020-01-04T10:00:00.000-05:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/59e0fb98-dda3-473e-a8b8-521b38a8cbbd.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mp3","size_in_bytes":21654800,"duration_in_seconds":902}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-5526891813745130614","title":"20: Healing After Abortion ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/20","content_text":"Tommy talks about suicide and mental health stigmas, introduces saints Serge and Bacchus, and answers listener questions about vicarious PTSD, healing after abortion, and weather-related PTSD.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about suicide and mental health stigmas, introduces saints Serge and Bacchus, and answers listener questions about vicarious PTSD, healing after abortion, and weather-related PTSD.

","summary":"Tommy talks about suicide and mental health stigmas, introduces saints Serge and Bacchus, and answers listener questions about vicarious PTSD, healing after abortion, and weather-related PTSD.","date_published":"2019-10-19T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5ef5217d-8ac9-4366-b104-a2ab8724037f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28252704,"duration_in_seconds":1177}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-2079402064964887714","title":"19: Praying for Death","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/19","content_text":"Tommy talks about intrusive thoughts and discusses gender dysphoria, introduces Blessed Solanus Casey, and answers listener questions about enforcing boundaries, building self-confidence, and praying for death.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about intrusive thoughts and discusses gender dysphoria, introduces Blessed Solanus Casey, and answers listener questions about enforcing boundaries, building self-confidence, and praying for death.

","summary":"Tommy talks about intrusive thoughts and discusses gender dysphoria, introduces Blessed Solanus Casey, and answers listener questions about enforcing boundaries, building self-confidence, and praying for death.","date_published":"2019-10-12T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/2fb9a126-f4fa-4eb1-9844-6c59039c3e85.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27789396,"duration_in_seconds":1157}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-8373609798445478777","title":"18: Caregiver Burnout","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/18","content_text":"Tommy talks about caregiver burnout and explores having same-sex attractions while staying faithfully Catholic, introduces Saint Maria Goretti, and answers listener questions about dissociative identity disorder, borderline personality disorder, and how to break the cycle of violence in our homes.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about caregiver burnout and explores having same-sex attractions while staying faithfully Catholic, introduces Saint Maria Goretti, and answers listener questions about dissociative identity disorder, borderline personality disorder, and how to break the cycle of violence in our homes.

","summary":"Tommy talks about caregiver burnout and explores having same-sex attractions while staying faithfully Catholic, introduces Saint Maria Goretti, and answers listener questions about dissociative identity disorder, borderline personality disorder, and how to break the cycle of violence in our homes.","date_published":"2019-10-05T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/a94d33e7-fcc3-4077-b301-d4427d28e88c.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30938510,"duration_in_seconds":1288}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-6722599922299685095","title":"17: Sex Addiction","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/17","content_text":"Tommy talks about disability awareness and how to help someone get into therapy, introduces Saint Rita, and answers listener questions about sex addiction, alcoholism, and not feeling good after a therapy session.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about disability awareness and how to help someone get into therapy, introduces Saint Rita, and answers listener questions about sex addiction, alcoholism, and not feeling good after a therapy session.

","summary":"Tommy talks about disability awareness and how to help someone get into therapy, introduces Saint Rita, and answers listener questions about sex addiction, alcoholism, and not feeling good after a therapy session.","date_published":"2019-09-28T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/6fbce534-a46e-41e9-8853-a5ef4b57cca5.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29322889,"duration_in_seconds":1221}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-4472053310739263101","title":"16: Panic After Confession","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/16","content_text":"Tommy talks about getting into the mental health field and where to start when returning to the Faith, introduces Saint Mary Magdalene de Pazzi, and answers listener questions about breakups, coping skills after confession, and deliverance ministries.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about getting into the mental health field and where to start when returning to the Faith, introduces Saint Mary Magdalene de Pazzi, and answers listener questions about breakups, coping skills after confession, and deliverance ministries.

","summary":"Tommy talks about getting into the mental health field and where to start when returning to the Faith, introduces Saint Mary Magdalene de Pazzi, and answers listener questions about break ups, coping skills after confession, and deliverance ministries.","date_published":"2019-09-21T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ae74da1d-2967-409a-836a-3fbd84905899.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24245938,"duration_in_seconds":1010}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-111898831155558811","title":"15: Gender Dysphoria","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/15","content_text":"Tommy talks about tarot cards and discusses integrating spirituality and counseling, shares a little from the life of Saint Padre Pio, and answers listener questions about co-parenting with an alcoholic, gender dysphoria, and the intersection of anxiety and scrupulosity. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about tarot cards and discusses integrating spirituality and counseling, shares a little from the life of Saint Padre Pio, and answers listener questions about co-parenting with an alcoholic, gender dysphoria, and the intersection of anxiety and scrupulosity.

","summary":"Tommy talks about tarot cards and discusses integrating spirituality and counseling, shares a little from the life of Saint Padre Pio, and answers listener questions about co-parenting with an alcoholic, gender dysphoria, and the intersection of anxiety and scrupulosity. ","date_published":"2019-09-14T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/761c76bd-86ec-4153-84e9-2669e58de712.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":33103329,"duration_in_seconds":1379}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-6993993330080149326","title":"14: Homesick or Depressed?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/14","content_text":"Tommy talks about the Pope's recent words about praying for others and discusses getting out of unhealthy relationships, introduces Saint Andrew Kim Taegon, and answers listener questions about integrating spirituality into one's family, the difference between being homesick and being depressed, and why God saves some people and not others.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the Pope's recent words about praying for others and discusses getting out of unhealthy relationships, introduces Saint Andrew Kim Taegon, and answers listener questions about integrating spirituality into one's family, the difference between being homesick and being depressed, and why God saves some people and not others.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the Pope's recent words about praying for others and discusses getting out of unhealthy relationships, introduces Saint Andrew Kim Taegon, and answers listener questions about integrating spirituality into one's family, the difference between being homesick and being depressed, and why God saves some people and not others.","date_published":"2019-09-07T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/5cda220e-4275-40ac-8c51-8c3b5d399f31.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":26266562,"duration_in_seconds":1094}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-4166340482554733197","title":"13: Post-Birth PTSD","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/13","content_text":"Tommy talks about how to give 100% to your family after a long day at work and how to enforce boundaries, introduces Saint Drogo, and answers listener questions about scrupulosity, social anxiety, and experiencing PTSD after a traumatic birth. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about how to give 100% to your family after a long day at work and how to enforce boundaries, introduces Saint Drogo, and answers listener questions about scrupulosity, social anxiety, and experiencing PTSD after a traumatic birth.

","summary":"Tommy talks about how to give 100% to your family after a long day at work and how to enforce boundaries, introduces Saint Drogo, and answers listener questions about scrupulosity, social anxiety, and experiencing PTSD after a traumatic birth. ","date_published":"2019-08-31T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/be63bf50-d757-4ec7-a9fd-4f3edf5da07c.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29043274,"duration_in_seconds":1209}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-1724311689766156066","title":"12: Navigating Toxic Relationships","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/12","content_text":"Tommy talks about trusting Jesus and being unmotivated to get into therapy, introduces Saint Hildegard of Bingen, and answers listener questions about welcoming the LGBTQ community, toxic relationships with our parents, and early-onset Bipolar Disorder.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about trusting Jesus and being unmotivated to get into therapy, introduces Saint Hildegard of Bingen, and answers listener questions about welcoming the LGBTQ community, toxic relationships with our parents, and early-onset Bipolar Disorder.

","summary":"Tommy talks about trusting Jesus and being unmotivated to get into therapy, introduces Saint Hildegard of Bingen, and answers listener questions about welcoming the LGBTQ community, toxic relationships with our parents, and early-onset Bipolar Disorder.","date_published":"2019-08-24T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/94b66597-8278-4bb1-a1f9-4a737eb55a9a.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":29573664,"duration_in_seconds":1232}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-7587285627214677414","title":"11: Setting Boundaries","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/11","content_text":"Tommy talks about anxiety and vanity and anti-depressants and prayer, introduces Saint Benedict Dawa, and answers listener questions about different types of anxiety, aging vs. dementia, and setting boundaries.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about anxiety and vanity and anti-depressants and prayer, introduces Saint Benedict Dawa, and answers listener questions about different types of anxiety, aging vs. dementia, and setting boundaries.

","summary":"Tommy talks about anxiety and vanity and anti-depressants and prayer, introduces Saint Benedict Dawa, and answers listener questions about different types of anxiety, aging vs. dementia, and setting boundaries.","date_published":"2019-08-17T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/7ad79f0e-cc7e-4ee4-ab6d-4487b63051e6.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27789396,"duration_in_seconds":1157}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-2766054618119516207","title":"10: Vocations and Mental Illness","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/10","content_text":"Tommy talks about mass shootings and relaxing in adoration, introduces Saint Gemma, and answers listener questions about obedience in religious orders, mental health discrimination among religious orders, and Saint Dymphna being the patron of mental health.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about mass shootings and relaxing in adoration, introduces Saint Gemma, and answers listener questions about obedience in religious orders, mental health discrimination among religious orders, and Saint Dymphna being the patron of mental health.

","summary":"Tommy talks about mass shootings and relaxing in adoration, introduces Saint Gemma, and answers listener questions about obedience in religious orders, mental health discrimination among religious orders, and Saint Dymphna being the patron of mental health.","date_published":"2019-08-10T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/fcbdce1d-38a5-4b97-99db-8a1932af9208.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25292926,"duration_in_seconds":1053}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-2925347432233805298","title":"9: Loving an Alcoholic","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/9","content_text":"Tommy talks about attention-seeking and the \"dangers\" of psychology, talks about Our Lady of Lourdes, and answers listener questions about the wounds of alcoholism, the need for trauma-informed priests, and the need for community. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about attention-seeking and the "dangers" of psychology, talks about Our Lady of Lourdes, and answers listener questions about the wounds of alcoholism, the need for trauma-informed priests, and the need for community.

","summary":"Tommy talks about attention-seeking and the \"dangers\" of psychology, talks about Our Lady of Lourdes, and answers listener questions about the wounds of alcoholism, the need for trauma-informed priests, and the need for community. ","date_published":"2019-08-03T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/e8b7d5dd-e1b0-4134-802b-0f8f42b78c22.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24258477,"duration_in_seconds":1010}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-8355634240900133081","title":"8: Scared to Get Pregnant","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/8","content_text":"Tommy talks about the Church abuse scandals and grieving a traumatic death, introduces Saint Mark Ji Tianxiang, and answers listener questions about therapists who blame the faith, feeling scared about getting pregnant, and reliving past trauma. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about the Church abuse scandals and grieving a traumatic death, introduces Saint Mark Ji Tianxiang, and answers listener questions about therapists who blame the faith, feeling scared about getting pregnant, and reliving past trauma.

","summary":"Tommy talks about the Church abuse scandals and grieving a traumatic death, introduces Saint Mark Ji Tianxiang, and answers listener questions about therapists who blame the faith, feeling scared about getting pregnant, and reliving past trauma. ","date_published":"2019-07-27T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/ab6714c7-7123-4310-80ca-99e230ca2231.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":28894689,"duration_in_seconds":1203}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-3977000042391737746","title":"7: Love Yourself Before You Date? ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/7","content_text":"Tommy talks about Borderline Personality Disorder and what to do when your parents hate therapy, explores the life of Saint Therese of Lisieux, and answers listener questions about Catholic dating advice, having a parent with mental illness, and knowing when to get help for anxiety and depression.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about Borderline Personality Disorder and what to do when your parents hate therapy, explores the life of Saint Therese of Lisieux, and answers listener questions about Catholic dating advice, having a parent with mental illness, and knowing when to get help for anxiety and depression.

","summary":"Tommy talks about Borderline Personality Disorder and what to do when your parents hate therapy, explores the life of Saint Therese of Lisieux, and answers listener questions about Catholic dating advice, having a parent with mental illness, and knowing when to get help for anxiety and depression.","date_published":"2019-07-20T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/55d3a2a4-b9a0-4048-9720-4653cb152859.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":31248845,"duration_in_seconds":1301}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-380613176004483439","title":"6: Did God Give Me mental Illness?","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/6","content_text":"Tommy talks about honoring our parents if our parents were unhealthy and the anointing of the sick, introduces Saint Jane Frances de Chantal, and answers listener questions about generalized anxiety and the Church abuse scandals, the ups and downs of recovery, and if mental illness is something God actively gave us. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about honoring our parents if our parents were unhealthy and the anointing of the sick, introduces Saint Jane Frances de Chantal, and answers listener questions about generalized anxiety and the Church abuse scandals, the ups and downs of recovery, and if mental illness is something God actively gave us.

","summary":"Tommy talks about honoring our parents if our parents were unhealthy and the anointing of the sick, introduces Saint Jane Frances de Chantal, and answers listener questions about generalized anxiety and the Church abuse scandals, the ups and downs of recovery, and if mental illness is something God actively gave us. ","date_published":"2019-07-13T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/71d1ba37-a299-4bdd-9930-06228a669cf5.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":30714066,"duration_in_seconds":1279}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-4413872321965104423","title":"5: Grief and Grieving ","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/5","content_text":"Tommy talks about PTSD and the importance of work, introduces Saint John of God, and answers listener questions about helping a spouse with mental illness, showing compassion to a friend with mental illness, and grief and bereavement after the death of a loved one.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about PTSD and the importance of work, introduces Saint John of God, and answers listener questions about helping a spouse with mental illness, showing compassion to a friend with mental illness, and grief and bereavement after the death of a loved one.

","summary":"Tommy talks about PTSD and the importance of work, introduces Saint John of God, and answers listener questions about helping a spouse with mental illness, showing compassion to a friend with mental illness, and grief and bereavement after the death of a loved one.","date_published":"2019-07-04T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/aea5fc34-77b7-45ed-ba53-4d2364069495.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24971933,"duration_in_seconds":1040}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-7084373010975662970","title":"4: Scrupulosity","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/4","content_text":"Tommy talks about receiving a diagnosis and battling scrupulosity, introduces Saint Christina the Astonishing, and answers listener questions about anxiety vs. a lack of trust in God, how to engage in Scripture when you have ADD, and the line between codependency and sacrificial love. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about receiving a diagnosis and battling scrupulosity, introduces Saint Christina the Astonishing, and answers listener questions about anxiety vs. a lack of trust in God, how to engage in Scripture when you have ADD, and the line between codependency and sacrificial love.

","summary":"Tommy talks about receiving a diagnosis and battling scrupulosity, introduces Saint Christina the Astonishing, and answers listener questions about anxiety vs. a lack of trust in God, how to engage in Scripture when you have ADD, and the line between codependency and sacrificial love. ","date_published":"2019-06-29T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/751df698-7307-45db-a9fa-b161c1cc1a3f.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":27111675,"duration_in_seconds":1129}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-4235842379786275783","title":"3: Self-Harm and Culpability","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/3","content_text":"Tommy talks about vicarious trauma, and mental health in Catholic schools, introduces Saint Benedict Joseph Labre, and answers listener questions about being prayed over, the battle against chronic health conditions, and self-harm.","content_html":"

Tommy talks about vicarious trauma, and mental health in Catholic schools, introduces Saint Benedict Joseph Labre, and answers listener questions about being prayed over, the battle against chronic health conditions, and self-harm.

","summary":"Tommy talks about vicarious trauma, and mental health in Catholic schools, introduces Saint Benedict Joseph Labre, and answers listener questions about being prayed over, the battle against chronic health conditions, and self-harm.","date_published":"2019-06-22T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/e0e1ab54-5b8c-491a-8230-275dd06261f0.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":25863440,"duration_in_seconds":1077}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-83314588839831418","title":"2: Fasting and Eating Disorders","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/2","content_text":"Tommy talks about seeking a Catholic therapist and explores fasting and eating disorders, introduces Venerable Matt Talbot, and answers listener questions about postpartum depression, what to do when you're feeling suicidal, and the lie that you wouldn't need therapy if your faith was strong. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about seeking a Catholic therapist and explores fasting and eating disorders, introduces Venerable Matt Talbot, and answers listener questions about postpartum depression, what to do when you're feeling suicidal, and the lie that you wouldn't need therapy if your faith was strong.

","summary":"","date_published":"2019-06-15T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/739d1aff-0a4f-4789-86c3-baf5fba7c9bc.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":24151271,"duration_in_seconds":1006}]},{"id":"tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8062726040466140395.post-8057549326833624867","title":"1: Mental Health and the Struggle for Virtue","url":"https://st-dymphnas-playbook.fireside.fm/1","content_text":"Tommy talks about assisted suicide and coping with Church scandals, introduces Saint Dymphna, and answers listener questions about finding help after trauma, how mental health impacts our struggle for virtue, and the difference between a counselor, a therapist, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist. ","content_html":"

Tommy talks about assisted suicide and coping with Church scandals, introduces Saint Dymphna, and answers listener questions about finding help after trauma, how mental health impacts our struggle for virtue, and the difference between a counselor, a therapist, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist.

","summary":"Tommy talks about assisted suicide and coping with Church scandals, introduces Saint Dymphna, and answers listener questions about finding help after trauma, how mental health impacts our struggle for virtue, and the difference between a counselor, a therapist, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist. ","date_published":"2019-06-08T11:00:00.000-04:00","attachments":[{"url":"https://aphid.fireside.fm/d/1437767933/3fe09d3a-6519-4def-bcba-962193e77e41/f8a0302a-d750-4bd8-ba8b-7363c96577fb.mp3","mime_type":"audio/mpeg","size_in_bytes":19978366,"duration_in_seconds":832}]}]}